"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Seduction apart from the game...........

Rubirosa

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I'm just curious about what avenues you guys take in regards to self improvement which makes you more attractive to chicks.....
In other words, a big part of this site is dedicated to reading the female mind, body language, and actions....
What about yourself......?
Me....?

I'm in good shape from lifting and Karate, but I wear suits, or blazers and jeans when I go out, as opposed to Affliction t-shirts

Cologne....?.........Drakkar, Armani Code

I like learning foreign languages....This has ALWAYS obtained chicks for me

I keep my house as clean as possible....A clean house makes for a peaceful enviornment. A peaceful enviornment makes a chick feel comfortable. A comfortable chick takes off her underwear.

I actually like cooking....I'm pretty good at it, so I do like inviting someone over for dinner.....(Of course I want to bang them more than I want to cook for them...They probably know that, so it's a good sign when they accept the invitation).

This is just a start, I could say more, but I'm interested what you guys do in order to improve your chances (apart from "Game")
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Recently, I've been living a more disciplined and regimented life; almost spartan-like. I've stopped drinking, and I go to bed no later than 11pm and I get up at 6am everyday.

I've just become a more serious and dedicated person all-around, and as I'm doing this, I've noticed how my masculine energy has increased, and people treat me with more respect. I read and listen to inspirational songs and videos in the morning so I can be in a kick a$$ attitude all day long.

When I do this, I really walk around fearless.
 

Rubirosa

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jglide123 said:
Recently, I've been living a more disciplined and regimented life; almost spartan-like. I've stopped drinking, and I go to bed no later than 11pm and I get up at 6am everyday.

I've just become a more serious and dedicated person all-around, and as I'm doing this, I've noticed how my masculine energy has increased, and people treat me with more respect. I read and listen to inspirational songs and videos in the morning so I can be in a kick a$$ attitude all day long.

When I do this, I really walk around fearless.
Good job.......I quit drinking some years back.......One of my best decisions...I can understand you minimalist approch to life.....
Here's a good post :

http://zenhabits.net/aday/
 

TheMale

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jglide send me some of your inspirational musics and video in my private box plz.

like jglide, i stopped drinking (not that i was a great drinker), now i just drink a mango juice when i'm out, and even if people laughing at me, i dont give a sh!t, that's who i am.

i know everyone repeat that constantly, but i stopped masturbating, it's been 2 weeks, and i had results thank to that. (i remember a period when i stopped for 4 years, but didnt had result because of my lack of knowledge ;)

i keep my beard trimmed really short, i like it, and chick also do !
i'm always wearing suits/pants with shirt/pants and polo
cologne - azzaro for men, scarlet rain, le male by YSL
keeping a good hygiene. taking shower 2 times in the day (one when i get up, and one when im goind to sleep or going out)

i still live in my parent's house, but i can't change that (student, and working a little bit to pay my studies, and my nights out), i do keeping my room clean, so in case of no ones home i can bring a chick !

i'm trying to model some movie's character that looks confident and if i like what i see i copying their posture and movement.

practicing dancing because i'm frequently getting out to places i can dance, and it's attracts attention. i also really like dancing.

i'm doing some cardio and abs, i'm practicing wing chun, but i'm not lifting weight because it's not good for my wing chun practice (i felt it after 2 months of training hard on my body)

i'm listening to music that make me wanna move, make me wanna party.

and that's it for the moment ! :)
 
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