"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Seducer's Music Collection (Rock version)

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So you have your favorite woman over for dinner, what rock album do you play?

No rap or dance music please, that will be another thread.

Here are some artists already in the collection:

1) David Bowie
2) Cake
3) Bob Dylan
4) Def Leppard
5) Death Cab for Cutie
6) Radiohead
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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It all depends on her taste and my mood because this genre is so vast in itself.

Both albums from Sixto Rodriguez : Cold Fact and Coming from Reality

The story involving Sixto's fame in Republic of South Africa, and later worldwide is an interesting one in itself https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Searching_for_Sugar_Man

Radiohead is nice, I really enjoy listening to Climbing up the walls.

Their first, and also last good album,
They went down because of sh!tty management, but became more popular years later after Metallica covered their tracks,for ex. Am I Evil ? is originally theirs.

Recently I created this playlist of Sheer , an almost unknown rock band from the 90s.
https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLPkjHlyyvjwvLfeVQHR-ADSOyNcqfckzO
I like Shea and Take you anywhere the most.
They disbanded and their female vocalist, Audrey Gallagher became prominent in Trance scene.
 
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Radiohead is a good band, but isn't that stuff a little too depressing sounding to seduce with?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Girls seem to like Radiohead. Creep is sort of the Beta anthem though.

8) Beach Boys
9) Beatles
10) Rolling Stones
11) Led Zeppelin
12) Doors
 

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