"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Secrets from a Drunk Girl

JohnChops

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Zekko I agree with you 100% about girls attracted to a##holes are trash. This one girl told me she only liked a$$holes and turns out she was the biggest piece of sh1t ever. Sad but true realization.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Here's how I see it. Before said 'jerk' got into her pants he was not such a jerk. I can bet he showed (some) sensitivity, selflessness and caring about her wants and needs enough to attract her and keep her attention.

I've read it over and over again that you're just another fly on the wall until you get physical with a girl and of course I've experienced this myself. Girls get WAY more attached after sex.

It's simple, girls can be AFC too. It's self esteem and it doesn't only apply to guys. Just like our sap asses have let women drag us around at times, too, doesn't mean it can't happen to women. We're still all the same instinctual species.

Don't take everything you hear to heart, especially just because it came from a woman. You wouldn't take dating advice from Ann Frank would you? I'm just saying...

Moral of the story is that Person A isn't necessarily going to appreciate the same things as Person B
 
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