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When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

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Secret Service Snatch Test (SSST)

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Any of you guys here do kettlebell workouts? and if yes have any of you done Secret Service Snatch Test or SSST for short?

Mentally and physically tough test. I went through my first test yesterday.

If you don't know what SSST is, it has very simple rules:

- Kettlebell 50lbs (24kg) for men and 35lbs (16kg) for women.
- 10 minutes.
- Perform as many kettlebell snatches as you can within 10 minutes.
- You can rest and switch hands as often as you want.
- At the end of 10 minutes, it is the total number of snatches you have done. Both arms.

From research I've done 200 is a respectable number to aim for.

My goal is to hit 200 reps, but I felt short.

Today my upper body is very sore. It was a great short workout.

Any of you guys done this? Are you planning on doing one?
 

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That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

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She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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How long have you been training with kettlebells? First year or two might go just to build the base endurance and strength.
 

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Ive done this. The russians over in Russia compete against each other doing the 10 minute test. They have to have correct form and the most reps win. Some of them perform an incredible amount of reps in the 10 minute test.
 

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Taistelukalkkuna said:
How long have you been training with kettlebells? First year or two might go just to build the base endurance and strength.
I've been working with kettlebells for about 1.5 years now. First 6 months I focused on the basics, to build up the proper form and technique.
 

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Did this tonight at home with my 16kg kettlebell since I didn't feel like going into the gym today (where they do have the 24kg's). 164 reps, was drained. To compensate, I did an additional 10 minutes of bodyweight calisthenics. Squatted 435 lbs. yesterday at the gym so my legs were already spent going into tonight's challenge.
 

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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

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Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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bmxcetera said:
Did this tonight at home with my 16kg kettlebell since I didn't feel like going into the gym today (where they do have the 24kg's). 164 reps, was drained. To compensate, I did an additional 10 minutes of bodyweight calisthenics. Squatted 435 lbs. yesterday at the gym so my legs were already spent going into tonight's challenge.
Nice man. Good to see you go through it.
 

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Thanks for the workout idea. I watched people do this online and realized I was doing a bit extra, I was beginning each rep from ground-level. One guy had 297 reps!
 
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