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Secret Power of Great Shoes

zekko

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I happened to be on the main page, and read Mr. Thompson's article "The Secret Power of Great Shoes".

https://www.sosuave.com/quick/the-secret-power-of-great-shoes-what-women-really-think.htm

I'm sure we would all agree women are obsessed with shoes, for whatever reason. In fact, now that I think about it, I bet I have received more compliments about my shoes than any other article of clothing. Usually just a simple "I like your shoes". I guess the article begs the question: What is a great shoe?

I don't claim to be an expert, although I will say I know what appeals to me visually, and I usually try to wear shoes that are new or still look new, or at the very least clean. And I also try to match the shoes with what I'm wearing whenever I can.
 

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I read the article and agree with its content. Good shoe game matters a lot.
 

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I agree. It goes hand in hand with "taking care" of yourself. I don't think you can go outside in dirty white sneakers or worn-out Timberlands/Dr. Martens and give the impression that your time management, finances, and other aspects of your life are in order.
 

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Wardrobe in general is very important. Shoes are part of that but if you wear nice shoes and dress like garbage otherwise it won't matter.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Better to be barefoot with solid game than to be wearing $1000 shoes but be a stuttering mess in front of a woman.
I've seen barefoot men clean-up.

Not joking.

If you aren't ugly as fvck, you're demeanor means more than any clothes you can wear.

If you are ugly as fvck, you're demeanor means more than any clothes you can wear.
 
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The proper demeanor, is not thirsty.

I know that much.

How to not be thirsty? Good question.

Men have been asking it for decades.

I know the answer. Every vet on sosuave knows it

How do we know?
 

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I don't wear 1000 dollars shoes, but I do receive compliments from women for my shoes, verbally and not.
 
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