"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Secret Consumer/Shopper

BAMBU

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Has anybody had any success with being a secret shopper.

Im thinking about registering and see how it goes, the pay rage is from $10hr-$65hr per shop .
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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on their company websites , but i wanna know how much monye can u really expect to make.
 

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A friend of mine was one. He said he got $250 for every shoplifter he caught, resulting in arrest. He worked for Home Depot- where you find every kind of thief under the sun. He told me people would buy lawnmowers, and stuff the box it came in with tons of tools, etc.......and then return the mower for cash only. I think one year, he almost made $75k.....catching shoplifters, refund fraud artists, etc. He said the MOST IMPORTANT part about the job is that you have to look, and act the part(of a casual shopper). Also, you have to have "eyes on the side, and back of your head"......to be a productive mystery shopper, because thieves are always on the lookout for you. And, you gotta be FAST-ACTING. The average timeframe for theft, is within 5-20 minutes. That means you must tail them, from the minute they enter the store.
 

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Oh ok but thats not what this jobs is about though, the ones im interested in are the ones that you are like an inspector, you go in and you grade how their service is and how clean thier establishment is, stuff like that
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Quality Assurance(QA) is a whole different story..... Just look like an ordinary Joe, and ask ALOT of questions.
 
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