Second time

[Diabolique]

There's this girl I walk with sometimes coming back from school. I asked her last week if she wanted to go see a movie on the weekend but it turned out she was busy. Even so, she asked me if I wanted to meet up with her and her friends last Saturday (they had something planned already), if not she said we could watch a movie some other weekend. I've decided that it's better to leave it for another time.
She's very talkative in class and her IL in me seems more than OK.
How should I bring into discussion going out again, I don't want her to tell me she's busy again even though she made it clear she wants to go out sometime.

 

[oakraiderz2]

Ask her whats shes gonna be doing the upcoming weekend. If she says nothing then go for it. If she is busy then just wait for another time.

 

[rich_uk]

like oak said, you dont need to directly ask straight out if you are worried about being knocked back, if you talk to her alot you must talk about what your plans are etc? so just be subtle and if she doesnt have anything planned say dya wanna go watch a film? or whatever you had planned... may not be a good idea to say wanna fcuk though.

 

[triple_ultima]

Whoa whoa. It's important to remember that it's a bad idea to ASK. What do you care what other plans she has this weekend? If she really wants to go out with you, she'll clear her schedule if she can.

The most important thing is to be completely and utterly confident. Example:

Instead of saying:
"What are you doing this weekend? Wanna do something?"

Say:
"Hey, I have some freetime saturday night. Let's go _______."

This portrays that you are confident she will say yes, and that you are a very busy man who has to make time for her, not the other way around.l

I did this the other day. I got this girl's digits at work, called her 4 days later, and said I had free time on saturday morning, and that we should go get some coffee. She said she had to do something saturday morning, but she was willing to get up earlier so we could go have coffee before her appointment. Score! She worked around my schedule, not the other way around.

 

[triple_ultima]

Here, I took this from a post by Pook.

Love is not like a courtroom.
Women are all guilty of NON-interest until they PROVE it to you by showing CONSISTANTLY good behavior.

Otherwise you do not connect.

No excuses, no cancellations, no run-arounds, no 'I'm not ready for a relationship' NO 'give me time'.

Love the way you want it or they must be weeded out.

Love the way YOU want it. Sounds great huh? Get used to it Don Juan.

Grow a backbone TODAY. It's NO to bringing a friend along on the date. It's NO to rude behavior. It's NO to "I have to check my schedule". It's NO to "give me your number".

You lead, they must follow. For a few months. Then you can get 'mutual' if you choose. That's "IF" you choose.

Protect the only part of your body that loves you:

YOUR HEART.