second date she flakes?

[LiveFreeX]

How ugly and desperate do you have to be to hit on Single Moms...


Like this guy -> http://www.quickmeme.com/meme/3oechm/

 

[zinc4]

single moms are good for pump and dumps..come on man..nothing wrong with some milf action

 

[backseatjuan]

A woman who wants to see you will move mountains to see you.

Mountains changes to moll hills when the talk goes about single moms. Whenever woman gives birth, men become 2nd. The better mother she is, the less of a moll hill you become.

To the other poster, single moms could be 19 years old, 22 years old, 24 years old, 26 years old. Real hot girls that end up single moms for one or the other reason. Not her fault either. Her man could have been a soldier that died.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VQ1Ap10ZuRM

 

[pyros]

Hi.
She just lied to me and thats final. I know this cause I went out last night and checked my phone sometimes and I saw she was online on whatsapp at: 23:20, 04:25, 05:20 and 07:30 am

Besides, she just posted on FB: I really like to learn salsa! so excited!!

So yesterday at 11:00 am she predicted that she was gonna be tired at night so she could not meet up, but she was awake all night (banging someone), and she attended her salsa class at 20:00 anyway.

Right, she just lied, ok. I wont contact her anymore. Bitc-h.

 

[Mr Gyalist]

I met this HB7.5, 30 years old, single mom, some months ago during my salsa lessons. Then some months later I found her on a dating site. I said hello to her, we talked and I got her number.

Some days later she was going to a salsa club and she suggested to meet there.. When she saw me at the entrance she came to say hello to me and I noticed she was there with a guy. I asked and she said he was just a friend. Once inside this club, I noticed that this guy did not have any idea about salsa, so he was just sitting down the whole time with a boring expression on his face. Besides, you could say that these two had a negative vibe between them, they did not talk much and looked at opposite directions. Anyway, I danced with her a few songs, we chatted a bit etc. When I left the salsa club, she texted me to say that she really liked dancing with me and that she hoped we could meet again.

Some days later I texted her to set a date, she agreed. We went for a drink in the evening, she told me that she works in a 24h/7 supermarket, so sometimes she works in the mornings, or at nights, etc. She told me also that the guy from the club was her son’s dad, but that she is no longer in love with him since some time ago etc. I thought: ‘whatever, I just would like to bang you so that’s fine with me’ . Then she suggested to go for a walk, I kissed her, we made out a bit and we said good-bye.

Now, some days later I texted her to set another date, that was on Saturday. She said that she had to work at nights until Wednesday, so I said that Thursday night was ok for me, she agreed too.
Tuesday night I texted her to tell her the time and place for the date, she agreed.

BUT today, Thursday, she texted me this:
Her: Hey!! How are you? Im sorry to tell you that if we meet tonight I may fall asleep…hahahaha. I barely could sleep two hours today, and I need to rest. I hope it does not annoy you.
Me (20 mins later): Hi, its ok, get some rest. I’ll see you some other time.
Her: thanks for understanding!!! Zzzz, zzzz, zzzz….

Opinions please?
what do I do?

Firstly, would a DJ, be taking this scenario so personal? She said she cant make the second date, so what! Why should you give a fcuk whether she asked to re-scheduled. You did the right thing and said I will see you again another time.

Remember your not trying to wifey her are you? so when you feel horny just hit her up, stop analysing into it, thats when it becomes personal and when it becomes personal it shows emotions. Wait a week and try again, if she flakes, no big deal...you a DJ you got loads of options right?!!


Remember, play the game not let the game play you..

 

[pyros]

Update:

last night I went to a salsa club and while dancing I noticed she was dancing next to me. I got a weird feeling and I decided to ignore her, but after the song finished she came to say hi.
I said hello and asked her how she was doing, how had been her week etc but it felt akward (some tension since she cancelled our date with a fake excuse saying she was gonna feel tired, but she attended a salsa lesson at night, and was online on whatsapp during the night, etc)
After this I just said: 'well, we should dance one song later on, see ya', and I went back to my friends.
To which she made this face:

Then I decided to dance with several girls just in case she was looking. I guess after a while she left cause I did not see her anymore during the night.


Now I think that I could have handled it better but I dont know what would have been best:
a) what I did. Just said hello, asked her how she was doing, suggest to dance together later on, and that was it.
b) be cooler, talk to her, dance with her and escalate.
c) ignore her completely.

I saw her dancing with a guy several songs, and I dont know with whom she came to this club, but it does not really matter, cause I danced with several girls there, I went there with a female friend of mine etc, so...


What do u think?

 

[pyros]

Ideas?

 

[jay07]

She brought her baby daddy to salsa lessons, when the dude probably doesnt even know what that is. Either she wanted him to fend you off if you were a creeper, or shes still smokin his pole and he had no idea you were gonna be there.

Maybe text her next week. I wouldnt even worry about it tho. Chicks are weird and flip a switch everytime a different dude comes into their life. She mightve met someone else or baby daddy got jealous of you and afc gamed her.

I think she used you to make him jealous.

 

[hockeyfreak79]

She brought her baby daddy to salsa lessons, when the dude probably doesnt even know what that is. Either she wanted him to fend you off if you were a creeper, or shes still smokin his pole and he had no idea you were gonna be there.

Maybe text her next week. I wouldnt even worry about it tho. Chicks are weird and flip a switch everytime a different dude comes into their life. She mightve met someone else or baby daddy got jealous of you and afc gamed her.

I think she used you to make him jealous.

AGREED 100%, clear your mind of this broad seriously. She's riding the c0ck carousel and has her beta-baby daddy on a string. So when she does gets pumped and dumped he's there as an emotional tampon. We've all heard this story a million times. Forget about it.