"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Second Date Question...

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Hey guys, this may sound a bit funny or weird but just wanna know how you think about this.

Let's say you have been out with a girl, and you've kiss closed.. Then when meeting her for the second time for the second date. How do you greet her, give her a hand, hug her, kiss (mouth or cheek)...

I think the kiss could sound like coming on too strong, so mostly i keep it casual and watch her reaction.. She should work for me, and show interest on the second date.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I've personally have had bad experience doing it the way you describe. I'm sure it can work, the whole mixed signals thing to peak her interest. But why back pedal in the relationship. how about grabbing her shoulders, arms, hands, whichever, and smile and give her a kiss. don't tongue her obviously. if she kissed you before why wouldnt she kiss you now?
 
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mostly i use a slight kiss on the mouth.. but every chick is different. And i know this mixed signals can be a bad thing, cause she'll start to become insecure.. just wanna know how you guys do it..

Anyway, i'll use kino on the dates.. and then hold back to let her think. Being predictable isn't a good thing.
 
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