"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Second Date or Even Worth it?

ChangingTimes

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So this is my first time posting anything and I'm a bit conflicted. I met this girl and we had sex and later I said I would call her. After some texting I asked her out for some coffee and I thought it went well. I didn't contact her for the next two days. On Saturday I tried to hit her up to see if she wanted to go out partying (I'm in college) but no reply. It was no big deal but now I'm wondering if I should give her a call to hang out again at a college event on campus.

So I guess my question is: should I invite her (it's a poetry slam) or do you think she's no longer interested?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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pdx1138

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Give it a week, hit her up again.

If you don't hear from here within a day...move on.
 

PrettyBoyAJ

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Put the Phone down. If she is interested she will hit you up.
 
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