second date: need hlp being ****y/funny

[thekcguyme]

I went out with this chick last friday and things went great. So I asked her out today for another date this friday. I'm going to be taking her out to play some pool for a bit and then back to her place to watch a movie. Lately though it seems like I haven't been able to get back into being ****y/funny or teasing the ladies. I was wondering if there was anything I could do to get me back into the groove of things or help me prepare for this next date. Any tips would be really appreciated thanks.

 

[HeMan]

dont give expected answers to her questions... make her work for an answer

also tease her on things you notice about her about which she is semi secure about...

teasing works really well if the girl has a good sense of humour

 

[Rhoto]

This next date is critical. She will test you for authenticity.

Changes in your voice, posture, body language will be important if you want to sustain her attraction.

****y and Funny is not the only way to build attraction. Just be an enjoyable guy that she wants to be around. If you put too much weight into one form of being, you come off as fake.

You want her to be thinking - "How can I get this guy to like me" - constantly.

Some things to keep in mind:

1) You don't have to respond to all her questions. Keep things moving. Expect curve balls.

2) Don't try to hard, or have a mind set that you need to follow rules. Just enjoy yourself, happiness is contagious.

3) Have fun.

 

[Ambition Now]

Fun is the word, ****y and funny is one of the things i must enjoy because it is so f*ckin funny, its great when you use it and the girl just cant stop laughing.