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Second Date Experience Good or Bad?

alegro619

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Hey guys I went on a second date with a woman about 6yrs older than me even though I didn't see it that way I thought we were just hanging out. We watch the UFC fight and after that everything just took off got dinner she even paid for it :), and then dancing . One thing that is bugging me is that I know she just got out of a relationship about 3-4 months ago and my guts says she got dump. Anyways before we started freaking one another she ask me "Can I trust you?" maybe about 3 or 4 times ind she was buzzing and at first I was like is she testing me? Then I grab her look her in her eyes and told her "I don't **** with emotions" I guess that is a way of me saying yes in a manly way! and then she started doing her thing. Anyways maybe I'm over analyzing this and I really want to get to know her more. Is that a good thing when she ask me if she can trust me I also want to get a woman's input on this. Thank you
 

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I would have said,

"you'll tell me when you can trust me".
or,
"you shouldn't be asking me that question."

What you said wasn't 'manly' at all.
 

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So when a girl ask you " Can I trust you?" is that is not a good sign that she likes me or something?
Mind you that after that night we cuddled in bed but not have sex some foreplay but she kind of gave me the boundaries that she is not ready yet for sex and also the following day we hangout the whole day and watch football and that night we watch a movie together at her couch and cuddle up again. I definitely know we are not in a friendzone because I was flirting and kinoing her and such. Or maybe I'm just over analyzing the whole situation.
 
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