"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Second Date Experience Good or Bad?

alegro619

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Hey guys I went on a second date with a woman about 6yrs older than me even though I didn't see it that way I thought we were just hanging out. We watch the UFC fight and after that everything just took off got dinner she even paid for it :), and then dancing . One thing that is bugging me is that I know she just got out of a relationship about 3-4 months ago and my guts says she got dump. Anyways before we started freaking one another she ask me "Can I trust you?" maybe about 3 or 4 times ind she was buzzing and at first I was like is she testing me? Then I grab her look her in her eyes and told her "I don't **** with emotions" I guess that is a way of me saying yes in a manly way! and then she started doing her thing. Anyways maybe I'm over analyzing this and I really want to get to know her more. Is that a good thing when she ask me if she can trust me I also want to get a woman's input on this. Thank you
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Hollow.man

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I would have said,

"you'll tell me when you can trust me".
or,
"you shouldn't be asking me that question."

What you said wasn't 'manly' at all.
 

alegro619

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So when a girl ask you " Can I trust you?" is that is not a good sign that she likes me or something?
Mind you that after that night we cuddled in bed but not have sex some foreplay but she kind of gave me the boundaries that she is not ready yet for sex and also the following day we hangout the whole day and watch football and that night we watch a movie together at her couch and cuddle up again. I definitely know we are not in a friendzone because I was flirting and kinoing her and such. Or maybe I'm just over analyzing the whole situation.
 
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