"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Seattle, WA - Activity Thread

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Greetings,
This Saturday, Walter and Martin will be co-teaching Approach Drills at Pike Place Market. They will be meeting at Local Color at noon. Please be on time to help get registration under way quickly.

You can pre-order your tickets online . This class is free for women. Same day registration is $35.00.

Remember to confirm your attendance on Meetup.com
Take care,
Spence Verde
Co-Founder, ASP Teaching
520-333-7226
 

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Ballard Wingman Night

Ballard Wingman Night
Saturday, July 27th, 2013
The People's Pub at 5429 Ballard Ave NW, Seattle, WA
We will be meeting at The People's Pub at 9:00. This will give us a chance to meet our fellow wingmen, set goals and get mentally ready for the night. Please arrive before 10pm to make it easier to meet everyone before we go out to the other bars in the neighborhood.
Check our Meetup page for contact info:
http://www.meetup.com/ASP-Teaching-Applied-Social-Psychology/events/131288232/
 
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