anonymous12345
Senior Don Juan
I’ve noticed I fail IG closes/direct dates on cold approaches because I rush to fast. I think I fail to build report/trust/comfort. Due to approaching relatively much, 4-5 times a day for a long time, and due to the well known low statistics of cold approaching (mine are probably even lower), it’s easy to develop a fatigue and boredom of the initial stages of game here.
Due to the amount of conversations it’s hard to make them interesting for myself. Girls seems to be rather thought stricken by the topics and contemplating, while I’ve had them many times. Also, due to the approach volume and varying chemistry it’s hard to engage emotionally with all, which is counter productive. (Sometimes you have good conversation and connection, naturally.)
How do you reason about this, beyond suggesting to take a break?
Due to the amount of conversations it’s hard to make them interesting for myself. Girls seems to be rather thought stricken by the topics and contemplating, while I’ve had them many times. Also, due to the approach volume and varying chemistry it’s hard to engage emotionally with all, which is counter productive. (Sometimes you have good conversation and connection, naturally.)
How do you reason about this, beyond suggesting to take a break?