"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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daygameguy said:
http://www.vh1.com/video/play.jhtml?...139&vid=285628

^^ Episode 1 is already out. Mystery proves to the world once again, that he is the best!

Btw, Tempe Arizona is teeming with HBs! Its like an oasis in the desert!:crazy:
Mad props to you daygameguy for hooking us all up with the actual episode before it even aired on TV! :up:

I'm getting off the forum to watch it right now! :D
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Randallpink83 said:
never watched the show before - But that is pretty cool that they picked my backyard to play in. Lot of potential here.
Although it looks to me like they are sticking to Scottsdale I would assume. ACME (the club they went to) is here in Scottsdale - And their house they are staying in looked to be in the Scottsdale style.

Scottsdale = Women

Tempe = College Girls

Both = Party!

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p.s. I never heard of them even being here - they had low impact as far as I'm concerned.
My d1ck would curse me if I didn't visit Tempe anytime soon. :p :p
 
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What else did I think there was too it? Well,lot's. It seemed to me that in order for it to work for you, you had to be this person I feel I am not, so sort of an identity crisis perhaps. Also, due to depression,and a mistrust I want to say, just not having the motivation to do it. Yeah, I want to women and get laid, but I just lack the spark. I am pretty sure I have long term depression,so that has something to do with it. Also, this feeling of not havin a gameplan so to say. Plus, the way I see the world. I have always seen things in this negative manner, which seems real to me.

I mean, I want to be that guy, have that sucees, but idk, due to a lack of it, it seems hard for me to attain. I have this idea of being on top/powerful, yet feeling so behind all of that. I mean, it's like I have yet to find that side in me, I know it's there, I just can't turn it on so to say. Or it comes out wrong.

I mean,seriously. This feeling of all this time passed with nothing, you would think I would have reversed it. But there is some deep seated wound(s) there. Some feeling of not feeling complete, even powerless,or un-masculine like. This concerns me for obvious reasons.
 
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K Im screwed.I live in Canada and on the VH1 site it says that its not accessible in my country.Any help?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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K Im screwed.I live in Canada and on the VH1 site it says that its not accessible in my country.Any help?
Just wait for the Torrents. You can buy them on ITunes, its just $3/$4 per episode.
 

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daygameguy said:
Just wait for the Torrents. You can buy them on ITunes, its just $3/$4 per episode.
Although I don't recommend you waste ANY money on the episodes whatsoever!

Especially from some overpriced abomination like Itunes!!! :box:

I'm a 100% certain that you'll find high-quality videos of the show floating around somewhere on the internet...
 

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