"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Search Function

Donjuanpablo

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I think one of the reasons people refuse to use the search function is because its very ordinary.

For example:

- When you search a subject, the actual poster does not appear next to the topic line, but rather just someone who's replied.

- When searching for a poster it rarely finds their posts, and tends just to find a topic that they've replied to.

There are a number of other flaws in it and I think that if we want people to use the search function properly, it needs be more efficient.

DJP
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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yes, whenever i search i rarely find what i need to find, or anywhere near it, BUT I DO FIND IT SOMETIMES. but yeah id suggest that the search function be fixed, then people would use it a lot more.
 
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