"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I'm looking for a post I made about a month or two ago and I can't find it. I was adding on to Str8up's idea about not burning bridges, I tried searching under my username, under his and the results are too generic.

I tried searching multiple words but the result returns wordA OR wordB or wordC not wordA & wordB, so its like finding a needle in a hay stack.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Yep, no quoted terms allowed.
 

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http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=137546&page=2&highlight=burning+bridges


MacAvoy said:
The more and more I think about it, I think no contact / no reply is the best method. It completely gives you control. It leaves the women wondering, how come he hasn't responded, like all the other chumps always do.

Does he not like me? Did I do something wrong? There will be a bunch of questions going through her mind. In addition, like Str8Up and Jophil said, it doesn't burn any bridges. Well others argue there was no bridge to burn, but by burning this non-existant bridge, it could catch other bridges on fire that haven't been built yet.

What happens down the road when you meet some random girl, who just out of fluke, happens to know the burnt bridge girl, then she says what an azz you are. Thereby burning another non existant bridge.

All for what? What do you accomplish by calling her out? How does it get you ahead in life? Other than making you feel better by, in the same way that a bully feels better by picking on people weaker than him, it doesn't do anything to advance your cause in the long run.
is this it?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I had no idea about him being a troll, however the learn how to read comment was in jest, I apologize if you took it the wrong way, I assumed you would know I was joking.

How come I can't find stuff when I'm searching?
 

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MacAvoy said:
I had no idea about him being a troll, however the learn how to read comment was in jest, I apologize if you took it the wrong way, I assumed you would know I was joking.

How come I can't find stuff when I'm searching?
i thought you were trolling him... maybe i should learn to read more better haha

pm me and i will tell you what to look for ok
 

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I can only go back about two months into my own post history. You can read the main board going back to whenever, but it appears you are limited when it comes to looking at your own posts in your user profile.
 

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reset said:
I can only go back about two months into my own post history. You can read the main board going back to whenever, but it appears you are limited when it comes to looking at your own posts in your user profile.
i can go back for a year
 

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penkitten said:
i can go back for a year

I've asked about this a few times, maybe I'm special because I'm on a mac.

I think it's the most recent 500 posts.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I can go back a year if I click on find all posts by Macavoy, but I can go back to the very beginning if I click find all threads by Macavoy.

I believe a mod said in a different thread, that they only go back a year, then everything is archived.
 

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Note to self, finish "the system". Last time I read it I had that syndrome called "how would this apply to certain chick I can't get out of my head", now I can read it with a clear head without shouting obscenities and smacking my forehead. Well there will be some of that.

You people have been here forever, oh my god.
 

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MacAvoy said:
I can go back a year if I click on find all posts by Macavoy, but I can go back to the very beginning if I click find all threads by Macavoy.

I believe a mod said in a different thread, that they only go back a year, then everything is archived.
Most stuff. However, in certain forums, all the posts are still in there.

You can go back pretty far though in most forums. Just gotta change your settings.
 

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what are these options? I've tried everything. I can only go back to january of this year. The option I have selected is "show all threads".
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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