"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Sealing the deal

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Hey guys what's up. My situation is simple. I'm after this girl who I know digs me, and I've sensed it for a while now. Some background on her is that shes a junior, has a boyfriend who just went off to college, and she's been with this guy for a little over a year. I'm just gonna say again for importance, I know this girl is into me. If she isn't, I'd become a nun, that's how sure I am. But since there is always that ignorant shred of doubt, I'm making this thread.

I used to be a huge AFC, thankfully I've shed that with flying colors. I've got the C+F down, the eye contact down, the works. But the AFC that used to be is still stuck in me. Even though I'm 99.99% sure this girl wants my junk, for some reason I get small flashes of doubt here and there, which prevents me from completely sweeping her off her feet when I talk to her. So what I want to know is:

How should I approach and talk to her in order to "seal the deal"? I know I can nab this one, I just need some help. Just remember, I can't blatantly come on to her since she still has a boyfriend (however weak or strong their relationship is now, I don't know). Also some tips on incorporating more kino would be appreciated too, since I could use some help with that. Thanks guys.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I can't blatantly come on to her since she still has a boyfriend (however weak or strong their relationship is now, I don't know).
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Unless you're afraid of getting beat up by her boyfriend, there's nothing stopping you from making your move. What if her boyfriend is a jerk to her? She may only be with him because she doesn't want to be "alone", therefore you'd actually be doing her a FAVOUR by coming on to her!

As far as how to seal the deal goes... unless she knows that you know she has a boyfriend, you don't need to do anything differently. If she does know that you know about her boyfriend, you should still treat it the same as any other girl, but if she brings up the fact that she has a boyfriend, and you get the vibe that she's just saying it to see how you'll react, just say "and since when does he prevent you from hanging out with other guys?". Then, when you're out with her, make your move whenever you see fit. NOTE: I'm assuming that you aren't going to explicitly say that you want to take her on a date... which you shouldn't be doing anyway, IMO.
 
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