“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Screwing it up quiet a bit, should I march on?

Canadien

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Hello guys, Ok this may sound like broken record, but I had spent 24 years of my life without really going after what I wanted, especially girls.

And in Last 1 year I've practiced teachings by almost every seduction and self improvement Guru out there,

yet I am not ready due to lack of experience, so on many instances I endup making fool of myself, and keep making mistakes, and feeling bad about it, is it just matter of learnning to accept the failures and be ok with it?

I see lot of people natural at what they do on this forum especially, and in similar fashion I put myself to initiate the approach or any sort of risk that would be pretty outrageous for me atleast compared to where I am in my experience right now, and despite the high chance of failure , I don't stop, and many of my endeavours keep on failing, so should I keep forcing myself to get inside the heat of the battle, and being aggressive risk taker, even if I'm not ready for that yet?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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scrapperdog

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You have not failed. Most people on here has made a fool of themselves with women. You dont seek out finding out how to become a DJ if your doing everything smooth as butter already.

You fail when you quit trying, give up, and stop trying to improve yourself and your game. So keep at it.

No is not a failure. It is a success, because you tried and did not sit back and do nothing just praying the perfect woman would drop out of the sky, your trying to make things happen, and that is what is important.
 

ready123

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Canadien said:
is it just matter of learnning to accept the failures and be ok with it?
yes, keep it going. and for each failure, debrief yourself and try to figure out exactly what you did wrong, even if you have to guess. crashing and burning is the best form of feedback you get. it hints what you're doing wrong, what your weaknesses are, what techniques are not congruent for you. and over time, learning from your failures is what allows you to piece together a structure in your head of what good game is. then it all starts to make sense

and learn to laugh at yourself
 
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