"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Screwed up Prom

xv2000

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Well damn it, prom was tonight and I totally failed. My date kept getting snatched up by other guys and I just danced there. I only got physical towards the end and we grinded a bit but that was it. Worst part about it? Even though we danced within a few feet of each other the whole night, she wouldn't give me eye contact while dancing.
I need tips for the dance floor as well as being more sexual. How do you guys succeed on the dance floor?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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NorwegianDJ

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Just keep it fun and sexual.

I try to keep it fun by taking her by the hand, and spinning her (Great opener!), and just dancing a bit ridiculous.
Sexual by obviously checking out her body (sometimes they feel judged, make sure to smile), gridning, making out. All that jazz. You get a boner from all the above; use it.
 

Plec07

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Don't be afraid to tell a woman you like her assets. If you like her smile, tell her you do then tell her to turn around so you can admire her ass.

Say it with a cheeky grin and she'll either laugh and refuse or give you a sexy little spin and you can say she's not bad from behind either. If she refuses well you still didn't offend her, she knows your interested sexually and you made that sexy smile bigger.

Too many people worry about offending girls by commenting on their curves, they like to feel sexy. They like to turn guys on.
 

WorkingDJ

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Haha. My date didn't dance at all so I grabbed some other guys date. The key here man is grab the stuff by the horns. Less thinking, EXECUTE your mission.
 
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