"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Screwed up bad; snapped at a girl who rejected me

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Derek Flint

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Don'tWannabeAWannabe said:
How is it not personal?

How could it possibly be more personal to than to effectively say "I'm not even going to give you the chance to get to know you even a little bit."?

I don't understand why I keep getting blown out.
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If your "game" is anything like your reaction to getting blown out, then that's why.

You should be glad she was honest with you instead of telling you some BS about having a BF or being a Lesbian.

If you're that insecure about getting blown out you're also likely sub-communicating that same insecurity in your interactions with women.

Instead of making them wet, you're making them feel uncomfortable.

You're likely the creepy guy who pushes for a phone number/date/kiss/**** without creating any attraction.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Kerpal said:
Does anyone think it would be a good idea to ask the girl why she wasn't interested? Maybe you could learn something useful.
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No, it's not their job to that. It's ours.
 
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