Screwed up bad; snapped at a girl who rejected me

[Derek Flint]

How is it not personal?

How could it possibly be more personal to than to effectively say "I'm not even going to give you the chance to get to know you even a little bit."?

I don't understand why I keep getting blown out.

If your "game" is anything like your reaction to getting blown out, then that's why.

You should be glad she was honest with you instead of telling you some BS about having a BF or being a Lesbian.

If you're that insecure about getting blown out you're also likely sub-communicating that same insecurity in your interactions with women.

Instead of making them wet, you're making them feel uncomfortable.

You're likely the creepy guy who pushes for a phone number/date/kiss/**** without creating any attraction.

 

[Derek Flint]

Does anyone think it would be a good idea to ask the girl why she wasn't interested? Maybe you could learn something useful.

No, it's not their job to that. It's ours.