"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Screw sad songs.

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I've got some songs that are positive rather than crying about how someone got ****ed over.

Most of it is underground rap. Don't knock these songs until you listen to them. None of that mainstream BS love song crap.

Akrobatik - Women II. Song is about maturing with women.

Apathy - Womanizer. This song is basically about not loosing confidence. Nightlife, this song basically what confidence will do for you.

3582 - Bad As They Come (Remix). This song might be hard to find. But you can stream it @ undergroundhiphop.com Although the beat sounds like ass over Real Player. Song can be summed up with "Sorry babe, this time you got played."

Murs - Bad Man. A song calling out womens BS.

Louis Logic - Idiot gear. About the stupid **** guys ask about a girls past.

I know there are many more from underground emcess, but right now this is all I can think of.

Oh yeah, listen to the Bee Gees-Stayin Alive before you go out. Pumps you up like a pimp.
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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So I have to ask... who the **** raps about maturing with women? That sounds like the worst rap song ever.
 

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Originally posted by splinterkb
So I have to ask... who the **** raps about maturing with women? That sounds like the worst rap song ever.
Again, way to judge the song before listening to it. Not everyone is about ice, bling, rims, and Bentlys.

You're from Minnesota, have you ever heard of Atmosphere? These are emcess that have LYRICS in their songs. Not DJ shout outs, and murdering people in the club.
 

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Yes I know Atmosphere. I have seen him before, along with I-dea and Brother Ali. It still sounds like a bad song, but maybe its the wording you chose.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by splinterkb
So I have to ask... who the **** raps about maturing with women? That sounds like the worst rap song ever.
Have you ever heard akrobatik before? I haven't heard that song but if it's by him I know it has to be good.
 
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