"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Screw pride, and cut them loose. Click for liberation.

the_govner

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We Don Juans don't try and salvage women, so repeat after me.

Girls that don't respond, cut them lose.

Girls that don't respond, cut them lose.

Girls that don't respond, cut them lose.

Girls that don't respond, cut them lose.

Girls that don't respond, cut them lose.

And repeat!!!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Hughman

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Good words.

I'll add to that:

Girls that string you along, cut them loose.

Girls that don't put out, cut them loose.

Girls that play games with you, cut them loose.

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Of course you want to try and direct them along the path you want them to. But if they refuse to comply, cut them loose.
 
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