"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Scouting for PROM DATE: Now or Later?

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I haven't posted for such a long time...

Prom is a few months away, but I fear not! However, I talked to some of the older people I knew about my philosophy, which was:

If I find a date to a prom NOW, she might not be as excited about it when the month of May comes around.

However, they countered my arguement with:

If I find a date to a prom NOW, you'll be perfectly set, and you won't have to worry about finding one later. Besides, you won't find the girl you want by the last minute because someone else would have taken her. Girls fear the idea of no one asking them to the prom, so be quick!

I thought about it and that made a lot more sense than my little idea.

However, I wanted to ask you guys and read what you think about the idea of finding a prom date now or later. Feel free to post...as long as it's helpful

Thanks.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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can you bring younger girls or girls from outside your school to prom ?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Our prom is in April, but I've got a date already.

She also said that since I asked so early, if I find someone else that I want to go with, I don't have to feel obligated to go with her.

Basically, do it now, that way if you get rejected by your first choice, you have time to find a second or third or fourth, etc.
 
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UPDATE: Alright guys, I got this one white girl in mind.

We've been friends for nearly 2 years now, and she supposedly "isn't into looking for relationships right now." Honestly, I could care less, but I can't help it since she hasn't had a BF during her entire stay in high school so far. In my case, we're good friends but I sometimes slip up with my DJness with her.

Anyways, I was thinking about asking her:

1) She's HB8.
2) I hear she can FrEaK like there's no tomorrow.
3) We're cool so she probably won't mind (i hope)

My question is:

Is there a chance to make out or do something with her if I were to get her hot and heavy with dancing? I read the DJ bible section about club dancing, and I learned some new ways to legally feel up on the girl's body. Would it change anything between us if I were to do this, or would we still be friends?
 
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