"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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El MonoLoco

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One of my buddy's has a serious AFC problem... he always hangs out with some pretty cute chics, but never seems to be able to get them in bed. I keep telling him all the things he's doing wrong. Alas he won't listen. He's always in the friend zone and keeps complaining about it....

He's not really the problem here. I generally hang out with him when I have nothing better to do and I get to meet all these chicks that he somehow knows... but I tend to vibe with them really well, better than him lets say.

Now the question...

Should I try and hook up with these girls or should I hang back because of my friend? I haven't brought it up to him yet, I don't think he would care. He's not out lookin for a GF he just wants to get laid. But I don't want to step on anyone's toes.

What do you guys/girls think???
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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do it... sounds like a situation that he wouldn't care about if it happened.. he can't get with ALL of them.
well maybe he could... hm.
 
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lay pipe, be discreet
 
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He'll be pissed when it happens -- speaking from personal experience, there's absolutely nothing more emasculating than working your tail off to get some broad in the sack, getting shut down, then having a friend swoop in and get work done with almost no effort. (Imagine being in your worst subject back in school, and how you felt about the kid who never studied, never paid attention in class, but still got top marks.)

Best thing you can do is tell your friend in advance what you want to do, then offer to help him find new women and teach him how you're successful if he gets attitude with you.

But if you value the friendship, don't be discreet; that'll just completely ruin the friendship when/if he finds out.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Hi El MonoLoco

I know exactly how you feel because I'm in kinda simular situation.

A friend of mine is most of the time in the compagny of several girls. He goes out with them all the time.
We're talking about 5 girls, going from hb6 to hb8...
All the girls really like him ... as a friend ...
He never made out with any of them...

I know him from the fighting club ( we both do kung-fu, although he has a higher level as me ) but the last 2 years I also go out with him ( but not that much )

A few months ago their was this chick ( a friend of him, but he was really into her, calls her every day, couldn't sleep, ... )
The first times I saw that girl I thought oke, she is really pretty but not my kind of girl, later she starts to hit on me.

To make some long story short, I Did not do a thing to not break up the friendship ... and I can tell you I can hit myself for not doing anything.

TALK TO HIM ABOUT IT, make not the same mistake I made ...


Sincerely
 
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