well i got an email from a DJ member wondering about how to score a girl in paris here was his mail:
"You said in a thread that girls in France are more mature than American girls. I am planning a trip there this spring and would like to hear more on this topic as I plan to romance as many of your fellow countrywomen as humanly possible.
What makes a French girl more sophisticated and intelligent? Also what do you gals tend to look for in a man? Are you hot on Americans or think they are buffoons? What style of clothing is considered sexy there? HipHop? Punk? GQ? I'm pondering a new look for my trip just for fun.
I dont know anyone from France so any feedback would be appreciated.
Cheers"
then i sent him my pretty long reply about which he was pretty happy:
"Wow I wasn't expecting that deep of a reply. Thanks so much for the inside scoop on Paris. I'm going all by myself and know absolutely nothing about the places, culture, etc. I will be there for about 4 days. The most intimidating thing to me is the language barrier - I hear the parisians are a little *****y about foreigners who dont bother to learn the lingo.
But then again since I'm only there for a short time and I'm a "dumb american" i can make a royal ass of myself without any repercussions. I love traveling
BTW your tips on approaches/seduction were really solid, I think they apply to girls in general and the forum would benefit from you posting that as a thread.
I admit I was skeptical of you Bridget, but it turns out you are pretty cool. Even if you may be some fat, lonely heffer preying on desperate virgins - your heart is still in the right place".
so anyway i thought i would post my reply to his question in case some of you planned a trip to paris or were just curious.
I'm sorry these are just an accumulation of the mails i sent and are probably a bit disorganized, I hope you will manage to read through my typos and english mistakes
here it is::
ok
why makes a girl from living in paris different=> "well first of all pretty girl in france are generally more educated that in the US since great education is far more accessible than for most in the US.
Also, everything you've done in college:
We've done in what we call "college"= the school we attend from 12 to 16=> all the alcohol try out, first drug, first free sex and clubbing have happened way before it happens to americans in general I guess...no?
so if they went through all the excess and still are on tracks ( studying in college) they are going to be way more mature and wise and experienced than the average american college girl.
like for example I remember when an american pie movie went out in france, i was like 12/13 and i was like that sounds like the issues a 14 yo have in my school, although the character where suposed to be like 3 years older than that.
So by the age of 20, girls are like plenty adults (unless they are very stupid which happens of course)
also we have the majority 3 years earlier than you.
A 18 yo here is free like the air can drink, go out, travel alone, hit clubs etc.. so girls have to deal with guys chatting them up in clubs way earlier than american girls. We know what we want, and if we like you, we are going to let you know.
Also, unless you actually show her signs of having a future with her ( thats not your case since you're a tourist) the girl won't see you another day if you take her number. So you might as well aim for the score the very night. She is aware of this too and will probably tease you/ kiss you/ maybe **** you the very night if she feels like it.
(OR if you feel like the girls likes you and has loads of gf, explain to her that you know noone and find a way to ask her if she would take you out and around sometimes...)
Anyway because of those many aspects, i'm 17 in france, and i'm probably as mature as a 20+ in the US ( or even more). Well that's the way i feel when I go to the US, I was hanging out with 23 yos (but maybe it's just me since i'm 2 years in advance at school and i'm just used to that)"
the best is exploring the cool parts of the city to understand what parisian girls come from=> "Also as soon as you go to paris, you have to go hang out on avenue montaigne during the day ( not sunday) or on rue du faubourg saint honoré, rue saint honoré; you have to go have a drink at the Andy whaloo or in the rue vielle du temple=> It will open your mind and make you feel a part of paris, make you understand parisians and how we like to mix genres... Also you will beleive it only when you see it with your eyes: The incredible style parisian girl have is not a legend. IT's like the normal way they wake up in the morning. In the us, girl only take care when it's for a night out of something or an event, here most of girls just do it everyday ( even 80 years old, it's pretty amazing) It's a real culture! And when you see how beautiful is this city (Like the most random street is MADE TO IMPRESS, well afterall napoleon used the money of all europe to build paris so..) you understand why parisians are so much into beauty and style. Also those places I talk to you about are like cool places to hang out, you will also find cool americans there. During the holidays, I met lenny kravitz in the shop called " Colette" on rue saint honoré, verrrry cool shop, It's typically parisian. Spend time in this shop, chat up girls if you feel confortable. Parisian girls looove american. And hanging out in those places will also give you a taste of how cool guys dress here ( except on rue vielle du temple, it's like artist area, french guys here dress like **** and girls dress hype/ hipie cute chic) there is many styles, you will find one that you like and you can just steal it.
here you ago, ask if you want more details about something"
about the game=> "I guess there is not really anygame. In general we see games straight away and it make us lose interest in you, so we just have a laugh at your depend and go tell our gf how much of a desperete douchebag you were.
I'd go more for like an obvious honest looking game, use your charm, make her want to kiss you. If she is with her gfs take her hand and tell in her hear that you want to go Pay her shots, then just talk to her about where you come from quick, that you are in paris to have a good time, to go too long in this conversation or she will switch to tour operator mode and not want to score you anymore. Stay on the mode "let's have sexy time" so try to kiss her, maybe after the shots, give her a big smile make her understand she makes you hot looking at her like she is a roast chicken and kiss her.
oh what we like in a guy is generally: good looking, tall, mature, sociable, not trying to be TOO funny, it's just annoying. and that know how to close a deal. They want to get picked up. If you're in a club, and she is like getting bored, ask her if she is hungry and tell her ok let's go find you something to eat let's go get your coat. But say it smiling and if she is like not saying anything no knowing if you're joking add: '" come on let's do it, i'm hungry too" and see what happens. IF you pass this stage, she is definitely going back at your hotel with you."
voilà, sorry again if my english mistakes gave you a sore head and thank you for reading, i hope it was a little interesting anyway.
PS: i also told him about his concern that parisian might hate american and expect him to speak french:
" not true at all, i promise. And most parisians speak english, poorly but they try. Many of them are actually from english speaking countries.
we don't think Americans are dumb, we like them (especially those that come hang out in the places i told you in paris.)
EXPECT americans that voted for georges bush, but this thought is common to the whole world.^^"
and if you voted for george bush, it's not hard to avoid bragging about it either so here you go, problem solved
"You said in a thread that girls in France are more mature than American girls. I am planning a trip there this spring and would like to hear more on this topic as I plan to romance as many of your fellow countrywomen as humanly possible.
What makes a French girl more sophisticated and intelligent? Also what do you gals tend to look for in a man? Are you hot on Americans or think they are buffoons? What style of clothing is considered sexy there? HipHop? Punk? GQ? I'm pondering a new look for my trip just for fun.
I dont know anyone from France so any feedback would be appreciated.
Cheers"
then i sent him my pretty long reply about which he was pretty happy:
"Wow I wasn't expecting that deep of a reply. Thanks so much for the inside scoop on Paris. I'm going all by myself and know absolutely nothing about the places, culture, etc. I will be there for about 4 days. The most intimidating thing to me is the language barrier - I hear the parisians are a little *****y about foreigners who dont bother to learn the lingo.
But then again since I'm only there for a short time and I'm a "dumb american" i can make a royal ass of myself without any repercussions. I love traveling
BTW your tips on approaches/seduction were really solid, I think they apply to girls in general and the forum would benefit from you posting that as a thread.
I admit I was skeptical of you Bridget, but it turns out you are pretty cool. Even if you may be some fat, lonely heffer preying on desperate virgins - your heart is still in the right place".
so anyway i thought i would post my reply to his question in case some of you planned a trip to paris or were just curious.
I'm sorry these are just an accumulation of the mails i sent and are probably a bit disorganized, I hope you will manage to read through my typos and english mistakes
here it is::
ok
why makes a girl from living in paris different=> "well first of all pretty girl in france are generally more educated that in the US since great education is far more accessible than for most in the US.
Also, everything you've done in college:
We've done in what we call "college"= the school we attend from 12 to 16=> all the alcohol try out, first drug, first free sex and clubbing have happened way before it happens to americans in general I guess...no?
so if they went through all the excess and still are on tracks ( studying in college) they are going to be way more mature and wise and experienced than the average american college girl.
like for example I remember when an american pie movie went out in france, i was like 12/13 and i was like that sounds like the issues a 14 yo have in my school, although the character where suposed to be like 3 years older than that.
So by the age of 20, girls are like plenty adults (unless they are very stupid which happens of course)
also we have the majority 3 years earlier than you.
A 18 yo here is free like the air can drink, go out, travel alone, hit clubs etc.. so girls have to deal with guys chatting them up in clubs way earlier than american girls. We know what we want, and if we like you, we are going to let you know.
Also, unless you actually show her signs of having a future with her ( thats not your case since you're a tourist) the girl won't see you another day if you take her number. So you might as well aim for the score the very night. She is aware of this too and will probably tease you/ kiss you/ maybe **** you the very night if she feels like it.
(OR if you feel like the girls likes you and has loads of gf, explain to her that you know noone and find a way to ask her if she would take you out and around sometimes...)
Anyway because of those many aspects, i'm 17 in france, and i'm probably as mature as a 20+ in the US ( or even more). Well that's the way i feel when I go to the US, I was hanging out with 23 yos (but maybe it's just me since i'm 2 years in advance at school and i'm just used to that)"
the best is exploring the cool parts of the city to understand what parisian girls come from=> "Also as soon as you go to paris, you have to go hang out on avenue montaigne during the day ( not sunday) or on rue du faubourg saint honoré, rue saint honoré; you have to go have a drink at the Andy whaloo or in the rue vielle du temple=> It will open your mind and make you feel a part of paris, make you understand parisians and how we like to mix genres... Also you will beleive it only when you see it with your eyes: The incredible style parisian girl have is not a legend. IT's like the normal way they wake up in the morning. In the us, girl only take care when it's for a night out of something or an event, here most of girls just do it everyday ( even 80 years old, it's pretty amazing) It's a real culture! And when you see how beautiful is this city (Like the most random street is MADE TO IMPRESS, well afterall napoleon used the money of all europe to build paris so..) you understand why parisians are so much into beauty and style. Also those places I talk to you about are like cool places to hang out, you will also find cool americans there. During the holidays, I met lenny kravitz in the shop called " Colette" on rue saint honoré, verrrry cool shop, It's typically parisian. Spend time in this shop, chat up girls if you feel confortable. Parisian girls looove american. And hanging out in those places will also give you a taste of how cool guys dress here ( except on rue vielle du temple, it's like artist area, french guys here dress like **** and girls dress hype/ hipie cute chic) there is many styles, you will find one that you like and you can just steal it.
here you ago, ask if you want more details about something"
about the game=> "I guess there is not really anygame. In general we see games straight away and it make us lose interest in you, so we just have a laugh at your depend and go tell our gf how much of a desperete douchebag you were.
I'd go more for like an obvious honest looking game, use your charm, make her want to kiss you. If she is with her gfs take her hand and tell in her hear that you want to go Pay her shots, then just talk to her about where you come from quick, that you are in paris to have a good time, to go too long in this conversation or she will switch to tour operator mode and not want to score you anymore. Stay on the mode "let's have sexy time" so try to kiss her, maybe after the shots, give her a big smile make her understand she makes you hot looking at her like she is a roast chicken and kiss her.
oh what we like in a guy is generally: good looking, tall, mature, sociable, not trying to be TOO funny, it's just annoying. and that know how to close a deal. They want to get picked up. If you're in a club, and she is like getting bored, ask her if she is hungry and tell her ok let's go find you something to eat let's go get your coat. But say it smiling and if she is like not saying anything no knowing if you're joking add: '" come on let's do it, i'm hungry too" and see what happens. IF you pass this stage, she is definitely going back at your hotel with you."
voilà, sorry again if my english mistakes gave you a sore head and thank you for reading, i hope it was a little interesting anyway.
PS: i also told him about his concern that parisian might hate american and expect him to speak french:
" not true at all, i promise. And most parisians speak english, poorly but they try. Many of them are actually from english speaking countries.
we don't think Americans are dumb, we like them (especially those that come hang out in the places i told you in paris.)
EXPECT americans that voted for georges bush, but this thought is common to the whole world.^^"
and if you voted for george bush, it's not hard to avoid bragging about it either so here you go, problem solved
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