"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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if anyone read my last thread, u know the girl im talking about. if not, shame on u for not reading my thread. lol

so we're in french class, not doing our work because we had a sub. its me, the girl, lets call her ana, and another girl we're friends with, lets call her tara. i say ana is about a HB8.5, and when she really fixes herself up, a 9 for sure.

im being my ****y/funny self, they're always laughing, so nothing out of the ordinary there. the topic changes to valentine's day, and tara asks me something to the effect of: "are u doing anything for v-day?". i turn to ana and ask her straight up, "do you want to be my valentine?" here was the convo as best as i can remember it:

her- are u serious?
me- sure. come on, u know u want to.
her- you dont even know where i live.
me- well, give me your number, we'll set it all up later.
her- i dont know what we could do...
me- dinner?
her- hmm... i like chili's...
me- see, u're already planning it.
her- well u know i work a lot.
me- thats ok, u can take a day off. just let me know when u get your schedual and we'll plan it.
her- im off today!
me- heh, thats too short-notice.
her- yea, i know.
me- *i pull out my cell, get her number and take her pic. then i write my number for her*
her- u dont wanna give me your number, im gonna call u like everyday when im bored.
me- thats alright, i just wont pick up sometimes.
her- *giving me a stunned look like 'no u did not just say that!'*
me- *laughing*

this whole thing was funny to me, because this girl is my main focus, but i was planning to ask for another girl's number today. it got switched, and i cant say im not happy with the results. wish me luck for the date. i'll report on that when it happens if anyone cares to hear about it.

sweetness.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Hahah Nice pickup bro. I like that not pickup line. Sarge on
 

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geez, no one responds to my threads....

well anyway, today i was just at lunch, and i had my cell phone out. my hott friend melina was next to me, and she noticed it. she's like, "u have a cell phone? since when??"

me- since christmas....
her- omg why didnt u tell me?
me- i..... didnt know u cared so much....
her- here's my number!

so we traded numbers, and i didnt have to do a thing. that is mad skillz, lol.
 

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Originally posted by Ace of Flames
if anyone read my last thread, u know the girl im talking about. if not, shame on u for not reading my thread. lol

so we're in french class, not doing our work because we had a sub. its me, the girl, lets call her ana, and another girl we're friends with, lets call her tara. i say ana is about a HB8.5, and when she really fixes herself up, a 9 for sure.

im being my ****y/funny self, they're always laughing, so nothing out of the ordinary there. the topic changes to valentine's day, and tara asks me something to the effect of: "are u doing anything for v-day?". i turn to ana and ask her straight up, "do you want to be my valentine?" here was the convo as best as i can remember it:

her- are u serious?
me- sure. come on, u know u want to.
her- you dont even know where i live.
me- well, give me your number, we'll set it all up later.
her- i dont know what we could do...
me- dinner?
her- hmm... i like chili's...
me- see, u're already planning it.
her- well u know i work a lot.
me- thats ok, u can take a day off. just let me know when u get your schedual and we'll plan it.
her- im off today!
me- heh, thats too short-notice.
her- yea, i know.
me- *i pull out my cell, get her number and take her pic. then i write my number for her*
her- u dont wanna give me your number, im gonna call u like everyday when im bored.
me- thats alright, i just wont pick up sometimes.
her- *giving me a stunned look like 'no u did not just say that!'*
me- *laughing*

this whole thing was funny to me, because this girl is my main focus, but i was planning to ask for another girl's number today. it got switched, and i cant say im not happy with the results. wish me luck for the date. i'll report on that when it happens if anyone cares to hear about it.

sweetness.
with the "thats alright, i just wont pick up sometimes" line, you may get some mad lmr
 

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:up:

Pretty good Ace.

However, when you go on this date of yours:

DO NOT GO TO CHILI'S!
(Remember be unpredictable and in control.)

Take her on an action date.
(I don't think I need to explain why...)


And most importantly HAVE FUN!


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Be DIFFERENT in an ATTRACTIVE way.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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yea, i didnt plan on going to chili's anyway. i think the pool hall a little further down the highway is a better choice. ^_^

hey dirty, whats lmr? and while im at it, i need to know a few other abbreviations that float around on this site. IOIs, AMOGs, and KBJs, to be exact. i dont remember ever seeing a straight up definition of those around here.

they have a glossary section in the bible, but is empty. we should put all the basic terms of DJ-ness in there, and all these abbreviations. i think it would help out a lot of the new people, and also people like me that missed the memo on a new term or saying.

hey, posts on my thread! i guess there is a first for everything...

EDIT: ok, nvm about the abbreviations. that was fast guys, thanks.
 
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hehe, nice moves. I like how you got her to plan the date...
 

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Originally posted by Ace of Flames
geez, no one responds to my threads....

well anyway, today i was just at lunch, and i had my cell phone out. my hott friend melina was next to me, and she noticed it. she's like, "u have a cell phone? since when??"

me- since christmas....
her- omg why didnt u tell me?
me- i..... didnt know u cared so much....
her- here's my number!

so we traded numbers, and i didnt have to do a thing. that is mad skillz, lol.
I am sorry to ruin your little bubble, that was not mad skillz since notice your use of the word friend , if she is your friend, it is only natural for her to give you her phone number. I also remember when i first got my phone, I got so many hot girls numbers, as friends, but never used them.

Cold pick ups are so much harder. But anyway its nice to see people that are happy and post lots.

As to abbreviations, they are all explained all over the place, but here goes again AMOG: Alpha Male Other Guy (generally someone of similar skills acting as a ****block towards you), KJ: Key Jockey, IOI: Indicators of Interest.

Just one last thought, why settle for second best, get the number of the girl that you want, not the one thats easiest to get.
 

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i understand jsh. i dont expect anything to come out of my "friend". mainly because she has a bf. if they ever break up, i could make something happen, but im not riding on it or anything. we flirt and tease a lot, and i dont see her all that often, so it isnt like there's no chance. and the mad skillz thing? just messin'.

as for the girl that matters, i have a question. i'll see her in class on monday. i dont plan to act any differently than usual, but should i be looking out for any signs or signals? i havent called her yet, because it hasnt been long enough. even tho she said she'd call me, she hasnt, and i dont expect it to happen. you guys think it'll be weird? im not worried, just curious.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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LIVE THREAD, LIIIIIIVE!!!!

anyway.... updates and such. i got the other girl's number today! the girl i was originally aiming to get, but it got switched? now i have both. woot.

i was doin the usual, and we were walking to lunch. we got to the line, and she says, "i'm gonna go talk to a friend. i'll be right back". i said, "you better!" and she walked away with a smile. then i decided i was going to get the number today. i pulled out my cell and added her name to my contacts. the plan was, she would come back, and i'd say, "hey, i have your name, but i need a number." it woulda been smooth, but... she didnt come back.

so we meet up back in class, and i forgot i had her name in there and everything. someone sent me a message and i checked it. then these girls were like "omg lemme see your phone!" i said whatever and let em see, i dont have anything to hide. so she had it, and she's goin down my list of contacts, and i remember i had that there. i was like, "oh hey, i put your name in there!"

her- u have my name but not my number?
me- well yea, i was going to get it eventually.
her- *she puts her number in with a smile on her face*

so yea, i kinda bungled it, but i recovered at the end. and i got the number, so thats all that really matters. kudos to me.
 

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I hate when p-ressing backspace means going back one page in your history... At least I know what I was going to say:D

LJBF is harder to get over than cold approaches. Seduction of somebody who doesn't believe in your abilities versus seduction of somebody who can only guess your abilities. Seducing a friend fto a FBuddy is some peoples REASON for coming to this site.

Thanks for the two new skillz I appreciate it. Your a natural, you better be working on your confidence;)

1st was creating open ended questions for future plans with the girl. 2nd was the PGT, Fing beautiful, I could pull that off at least once every 5 minutes. I so want a camera phone:D
 

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pgt?

lol, being called a natural definately ups my confidence. thanks bro.

some other new stuff, the 1st girl, ana, got a cell phone about 2 days ago. kool right? she didnt give me the number for it though. whats up with that? i was ready to add it on my cell and i said, "hey, whats your cell number?". she said, "i dont know it yet, blah blah" and she left class. i guess i could've asked at a better time, it WAS after the bell rang. oh well, i see her tommorow, i'll get it then. then i can have fun with texts and such. joy.

the 2nd girl is roxanne. i've always liked that name, btw. she's less reserved than ana, i guess you could say. more touchy. and she has the weirdest laugh "heeekekekekkekekekeke!!" its really loud. but oh well, i digress.

they're different, but i like em both. guess we'll see how it works out. i need to find a valentine, and even more importantly, a prom date. at least i have options, lol.
 

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yea, got another number tonight. its not so hard.

this time wasnt at school tho. my friends and i went to the movies, and afterwards, grabbed some cheesesticks at bennigan's. its me, my wingman, and this girl he has some history with.... long story, u dont wanna know. so as the host is leading us to a table, i spot a HB8 waitress walking by, and we lock eyes. she looks down first and goes on her way. so we sit, and i say, "did you guys see that hott waitress lookin at me?". apparently, i have blind friends. so a little later, she walks by the table, and our eyes meet again! she looks away first again. our table is right by the kitchen door, so the waiters are walkin in and out constantly. everytime a girl came out, my friends are asking, "her? her? her??", but she never came out. so then my wingman says, "ok dude, there is a waitress near the front lookin right at you man, is it her?". i turn, and see her going back out of sight. lol.

me- yea, thats her.
him- dude, she's hott. you should go for it!
me- you think?
him- if you dont do it, i'll do it for you.
me- hey hey, i can handle it.
him- whatever man, lets bet on it. you go for it, u win. if not, me. whoever loses pays the tip.

during all that, i saw her go over to another section of the resturant, divided by a short wall and some columns, u know how it is. she peeked her head around the column and looked right towards us again! sweet!

now, the pressure was gettin a bit heavy. its hard enough to approach a girl, but then add a bet, and the fact that she's workin in a busy resturant. insane. well, we figured out that she's actually a hostess, not a waitress, and she took some people to a booth near us. my wingman and i exchanged a silent look, and as she headed back to the front, he stopped her and said, "hey! my friend wants to talk to you!". yea, not the smoothest wingman, but it worked for what it was for.

me- hi, whats up?
her- hey! um, come with me to the front, i cant leave my spot. *while touching my arms*.
me- ok... *follows to front*.
me- so, how's work?
her- oh man, i hate it. im gonna quit soon.
me- really? wow.
her- so what school you go to?
me- school A
her - ah, school B (rival schools). what grade are you?
me- senior, you?
her- me too!
me- sweet.
her- you come here often?
me- thats what im supposed to say!
her- *laughing* oh yea?
me- *laughing*
me- so, can you get me discounts here?
her- haha, i dont think so.
me- heh, thats alright.
(i forget what we said here, but then she says this)
her- in a few months, i'll be moving up to huntsville, to go to sam houston
me- i'm tryin to get to UT, in austin.
her- oh really? i'll be goin there my second year.
me- kool. maybe i'll run into you there! but, in the meantime, lemme get your number.
her- sure!
(gets the number)
her- so do you need my name or you already know it?
me- i can read. you have the nametag!
her- *laughing*
me- well, i'll call you sometime. c ya! *smile*

woot for me. thats 3 numbers in the past week or two. i owe my wingman now though, hehe. he was jealous. no worries, he knows im good for it. he just needs to find some random girl i can grab the attention of.
 
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