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School-Week Hobbies... any ideas?

Natedogdude

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This is what I do during my school week:

I am in boxing. 3 times a week for 2 hours... I lost 35 lbs in say... 4 months, as soon as I started boxing and eating healthy. I lost some more weight too... but that was the most drastic change. I was about 220 before... now im about 170... my goal is to be 160/165... so I can have some nice abs or something to DHV with, and it will make ME feel even sexier, which is great for confidence.

I've been playing guitar for 7-8 years, and I got my first eletric guitar 3 years ago. Alot of people tell me I kick ass... and trust me. If you can memorize and play 16-page-long Metallica songs like "One"... you are at the level to where it is a GREAT dhv... I go to guitar lessons once a week but practice at home alot.

I write songs and listen to alot of music.

I talk to my friends on myspace/msn/aim/the phone, or hang out at their houses sometimes.

I study Psychology sometimes.

I read stuff on pick-up.

I am in the International Baccalaureate program at my school, and it makes me have ALOT of homework and projects.

I go to my dads on thursday night for dinner.

and I lift weights/go running with friends once or twice a week, unless I am too worn out from boxing and my weightlifting class in school.








NOW... my problem is... I actually have free time. and... its annoying. I talk to my girlfriend alot, but never really have anything to talk about.

Any additional hobbies i can take up or something? I would join Football, but that interferes with my boxing, which I LOVE... and will NOT give up. and I don't have a car, my MOM is my ride (notice... im 15)... so, it limits my options.

BUt any ideas for hobbies or cool thing I can do/start to do would be awesome.
 

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You should get a job. I have one and only work on the weekend. It sure makes me appreciate my free time because I do sports during the week. Plus, there is nothing wrong with having some extra money.
 

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get drunk. hahaha.
kidding.
i mean do you go out with your boys and stuff? with my free nights, which happens to be every night of the week haha, I go out to dinner with friends. You're a sophomore right? All soph year I had my parents drop me off and pick me up from weekly Wing Night.
Draw? sleep? jsut stay active and go out every chance you have. you're 15, the day you get your license you will realize that the world is in your hands and you can do whatever you want with it.

just dont follow in my footsteps and get that b!tch suspended for 3 months. your friends WILL end up ditching you.
 

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Learn some card tricks, get a job, learn how to juggle, go to the gym more, there are lots of things you can do.

Heck, make a porno series with your girlfriend ;)
 

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Natedogdude said:
This is what I do during my school week:

I am in boxing. 3 times a week for 2 hours... I lost 35 lbs in say... 4 months, as soon as I started boxing and eating healthy. I lost some more weight too... but that was the most drastic change. I was about 220 before... now im about 170... my goal is to be 160/165... so I can have some nice abs or something to DHV with, and it will make ME feel even sexier, which is great for confidence.

I've been playing guitar for 7-8 years, and I got my first eletric guitar 3 years ago. Alot of people tell me I kick ass... and trust me. If you can memorize and play 16-page-long Metallica songs like "One"... you are at the level to where it is a GREAT dhv... I go to guitar lessons once a week but practice at home alot.

I write songs and listen to alot of music.

I talk to my friends on myspace/msn/aim/the phone, or hang out at their houses sometimes.

I study Psychology sometimes.

I read stuff on pick-up.

I am in the International Baccalaureate program at my school, and it makes me have ALOT of homework and projects.

I go to my dads on thursday night for dinner.

and I lift weights/go running with friends once or twice a week, unless I am too worn out from boxing and my weightlifting class in school.








NOW... my problem is... I actually have free time. and... its annoying. I talk to my girlfriend alot, but never really have anything to talk about.

Any additional hobbies i can take up or something? I would join Football, but that interferes with my boxing, which I LOVE... and will NOT give up. and I don't have a car, my MOM is my ride (notice... im 15)... so, it limits my options.

BUt any ideas for hobbies or cool thing I can do/start to do would be awesome.
Pick up another instrument thats like the guitar.

I play the guitar, but i also have a Ukulele, and it's the best damn Peacocking tool in the world! I'm thinking of a Banjo or Mandolin soon.

Why don't you do that?

Also, how about, GO OUT AND SARGE? Get a little practice in? If you have free time, get out and meet new women.

Also, the job idea sounds good.
 
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