"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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It doesn't matter where you are on the childish fabricated, but existing social scale, but I can take rejection.

But comes rejection comes great harrasment from peers. If it doesn't work out, there will always be some other kids that go out of their way just to make you feel miserable (eg: laugh).

Now, usually, and logically, I shouldn't care, but then again, kids love to exploit your flaws and have a great time doing it (until it's their turn), but you must remember, try as you might, you're stuck with these people for many months to come, so how do you cope with peer pressures and dating?

--iMat
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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comic_relief

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fvck em and ask there sisters for numbers

Why even care. These people bothered me and I pushed right back with me pointing out there flaws. I wasn't mean about it but I said it matter of factly. Once they are put in there place the trash talk stops pretty freaken quick
 

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they make fun of your flaws.

so then fix them, dont give them the chance to even do it.
 

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Thats what i was trying to say I was just in a hurry in the morning. sorry for not adding it in.
 

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If people are talking about you, you already kmow they are comparing themselves to you. Anyone who is 'man' enough to make fun of you getting shot down is just jealous of your skills. No I'm not trying to make you feel better, I'm ****ing serious. They only make fun of you because they can't approach.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Geez, you should be laughing at those idiots that laughed at you. It seems that you are the one who took initiative, you are the one who asked someone out, and you are the one who was attracting women....not these fùckers....

You shouldn't really worry about those doùches that are laughing at you; they aren't your friends. Real friends wouldn't laugh at you; real friends will try to get you back on your feet and find another women that you can date.

On the upside, they probably wouldn't talk about your rejection for that long, anyways. ;)
 

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Sometimes, your flaws are not even addressed, it's just a blatant, you're gay, etc.

It's childish, but it's like I'm in a school filled with insecure homophobes.

--iMat
 

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Originally posted by iMat

It's childish, but it's like I'm in a world filled with insecure homophobes.

--iMat
Fixed.
 

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Originally posted by iMat
It doesn't matter where you are on the childish fabricated, but existing social scale, but I can take rejection.

But comes rejection comes great harrasment from peers. If it doesn't work out, there will always be some other kids that go out of their way just to make you feel miserable (eg: laugh).

Now, usually, and logically, I shouldn't care, but then again, kids love to exploit your flaws and have a great time doing it (until it's their turn), but you must remember, try as you might, you're stuck with these people for many months to come, so how do you cope with peer pressures and dating?

--iMat
Dude, i got shut down the other day, and my m8s had a proper laugh about it, and sometimes they have a go about my taste in women (which is ironic as they were all shut down by one or more of them). They laughed and had fun and still have a go (unluckily there is a song about the same girl and getting shot down). However, they shut up as soon as i remind them of their dating history. The best way is to play them off against each other if you do this, but even better is social proof.

Its natural that my friends do so, id do the same (cos id be secretly jealous they had the courage to ask them out), instead just walk by snuggling with another girl.
 
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