"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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School is out,where can I approach girls?

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I'm thinking of doing it at the mall,but I have no transportation or any bus money to get to the mall or any place to meet girls.I just dont want to stay home all summer and use the computer.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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sadburger

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Approach girls everywhere ;-)

Seriously, you can meet a girl anywhere you can go. Talk to everyone.
 

bigappledj

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You are at the bottom of the pile. You gotta have a ticket to get into the game. Money is needed to get a ticket. Get the idea?
 

ElStud

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Only place I can think of is the mall, that's where I go to approach. You can also see if you can find any clubs.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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bigappledj

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The guy is broke. How is he going to go to clubs? What is he going to do at the mall without money? Hang around the ladies' bathroom?

Don't be that guy who comes up to the random person at the bookstore and asks them about the book they are looking at. That is the biggest scam working. You want game? Elevate yourself above those that you game. They will come to you. Girls can smell guys like that from a block away.
 

just so suave

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Walk to the mall, bike to the mall, get a lift, just get there somehow

(you could even get a taxi/cab, and leap out of it and sprint off into the distance when you are asked to pay :) lol...)

So you're at the mall. Walk around the shops, and whatever store has an attractive sales assistant, go up to her and ask if theres any jobs available :) if she says yes, you've got a job and will soon have money, and also you've built up your confidence by speaking to attractive strangers :rockon: 2 birds with 1 stone.
 

ElStud

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bigappledj said:
The guy is broke. How is he going to go to clubs? What is he going to do at the mall without money? Hang around the ladies' bathroom?

Don't be that guy who comes up to the random person at the bookstore and asks them about the book they are looking at. That is the biggest scam working. You want game? Elevate yourself above those that you game. They will come to you. Girls can smell guys like that from a block away.
Dude, he doesn't need to be at the mall buying anything. He can just walk around and approach chicks. He asked a place where he could approach girls and there are a lot of hot girls go to the mall.
 

Lust

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bigappledj said:
Don't be that guy who comes up to the random person at the bookstore and asks them about the book they are looking at.
That's what approaching is.

Instead of waiting for them to come to you, you approach them. Be social, speak to everyone, make new friends, talk to guys as well. That's gaming.

I haven't seen much from you, no FRs or anything, maybe think before you give such definite advice.

And no,

Money is not needed to game chicks.
 
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ElStud said:
Dude, he doesn't need to be at the mall buying anything. He can just walk around and approach chicks. He asked a place where he could approach girls and there are a lot of hot girls go to the mall.
Wow that is what i was thinking..
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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