"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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school help/NOT RELATED TO GETTING GIRLS

kevin1198

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i have a problem.

well, in my journey to becoming a DJ, i've realised that what people have been preaching is true. to survive in this world,to gain power, and to be successful, you need a good education.

the only subject i really need help in is math, it's like i just cant do it.
If i actually manage to learn something, i forget it the next day but i can remember science and all other subjects with no effort, because i literally sleep in all those classes, never do my work and still pass EOCT's with flying colors. and the teachers usually end up impressed and tell me that i have so much potential, if only i put more effort into it.
BUT it's really hard to learn in my math support class because the students in there never shut up, and we never get work done.
so im trying to motivate myself to self teach math.
I know that if i dont do it i will fail just like all the other losers in my class, and i dont want to be one of them.

so can i get any help with this guys? when it comes to math it just seems like it's hopeless.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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jeffthechef

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it's effort

i used to think the same thing about ap physics
was a ***** for the first three units...the basic **** too

i couldn't figure out what the **** was going on...
immediate reactions..
1. I can't do this.
2. My teacher can't teach this.
3. The class isn't well structured.

Once you get past those immediate thoughts..you get to the point..
it's all effort and time

i made myself believe i was putting in lots of time and effort

even if you spend hours doing studying...if your problem persists, you aren't studying efficiently...if you're not spending hours...start studying more

it's all about priority really


one thing that helped me a lot with senior slump is a lifestyle change

1. I stopped playing video games...plan to sell them actually..i have the old **** too so they dont make games for em anyways

2. Less internet.

3. More work outs...got adjustable dumbbells which are fcking amazing

4. more studying

basically

Eat/sleep/study/work out/school/girls/friends
not in any particular order

but i cut out the junk...why chat online when you can meet up in person..why play games when you can be doing stuff that will help you in the future and the present

just keep styding...and cut the junk out of your life...you dont have to cut out video games and the internet completely..but definitly reflect on your priorities
 

thedoc

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jeffthechef said:
it's effort

i used to think the same thing about ap physics
was a ***** for the first three units...the basic **** too

i couldn't figure out what the **** was going on...
immediate reactions..
1. I can't do this.
2. My teacher can't teach this.
3. The class isn't well structured.

Once you get past those immediate thoughts..you get to the point..
it's all effort and time

i made myself believe i was putting in lots of time and effort

even if you spend hours doing studying...if your problem persists, you aren't studying efficiently...if you're not spending hours...start studying more

it's all about priority really


one thing that helped me a lot with senior slump is a lifestyle change

1. I stopped playing video games...plan to sell them actually..i have the old **** too so they dont make games for em anyways

2. Less internet.

3. More work outs...got adjustable dumbbells which are fcking amazing

4. more studying

basically

Eat/sleep/study/work out/school/girls/friends
not in any particular order

but i cut out the junk...why chat online when you can meet up in person..why play games when you can be doing stuff that will help you in the future and the present

just keep styding...and cut the junk out of your life...you dont have to cut out video games and the internet completely..but definitly reflect on your priorities
Jeff is completely right, everything you need is in that post.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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