"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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goldenrocker91

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So yea i have a school dance cominup and i can dance and all but i dont rele kno how to initiate dancing with oother girls and how do u initiate making out with girls once your dancin with them.. i always have just danced with friends who i kno but now ill just know the guys there. I wanna get some action lol
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Eddie G.

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ok to ask a girl to dance is pretty easy, just go up to any girl u want to ask and touch her arm, shoulder, hand to get her attention and with a big smile say "would u like to dance." as for a kiss i wouldnt rush it right away on the dance floor, what i do sometimes when im into a girl is in a slow or fast song dont matter is when we catch eyes i have a big smile, obiously she'll smile back, i kiss her on da cheek, if she has an even bigger smile than it was before, then i know she liked it, later i'll go in to kiss her on her lips, sometimes it works sometimes it doesn't. but as for u, u can just feel her on her waist or hand when ur dancing just to let yourself be known, she cant say anything or get made cause u aint doin anything wrong, but if u think shes really into u go for it, if she dont like it kinda play it off while ur dancing as kind of a spur of the moment thing. hope this helped u out a little or alot.
 

bob88

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Since the music will be bumping you dont even need to ask verbally.

Just go up to the girl, touch her arm/shoulder/hand to get her attention, and when she looks at you you nod back in the direction of the dance floor and raise an eyebrow. She'll get the hint.
 

SweetTooth

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Wait for a really emotional piece to come on >: ) lol... I am not much of a romantic guy in general, but gives you an excuse if nothing else :p... Girls can be suckers for that kind of thing, oh and here's ANOTHER thing, if they like you they will see it the same way and will probably be makin' moves on YOU... Emotional for me can be something little like a few of them Keane ones (what a weird sense of emotion I have :p)... If it is a really romantic track obviously designed for just that, I would start dancing just as the track before was ending if I wasn't sure she liked me... so make sure you know the line-up... Probably the girl wouldn't wanna stop dancing after just a few seconds...

ALSO I suggest you stick on the dance floor a lot... It is proven that girls are more attracted to guys on the dance floor whether they are good dancers or NOT...
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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