ShawnStJames
Don Juan
I've concluded that theres almost an INVERSE relationship to how YOUR interest level corresponds to hers.
In short, I think I've sabotoged myself untold times by playing my "hand".
A girl is an emotional creature,, but they SENSE things that we dont. Its hard to HIDE your feelings toward her.
BUt you NEED to.
How do you do it?
I practice a few techniques including dating several people at once(this works on ME,,,not her), keeping busy, etc.
But you may not have thought of REGULATING yourself in your time with her.
THis means that you not only dont call her EVERY day,,,but you vary WHEN you call. There is no pattern to it. Sometimes you dont call when youre SUPPOSED to. Youre generally unavailable.
TYpical week: You call her on tuesday night. Ten minute convo.
She calls you thursday wondering what youre up to.
You DONT call her. She calls YOU again saturday morning. Youre NOT available.
You call her sunday night. She wonders what you've been up to.
You let her know you've been tied with with many things.
Her interest level is growing.
Why?
First of all, she realizes that she's probably your TENTH priority. Women love this kind of challenge.
BUt dont TELL her this.
Just be a schizophrenically unpredictable and use time spacing which seems illogical.
See if it works for you.
BTW.......when you first meet a girl to ask out,,,try this time schedule:
Wait FOUR days before calling her. Ask her to coffee for a tuesday night.
After the date wait another FOUR days.
In short, I think I've sabotoged myself untold times by playing my "hand".
A girl is an emotional creature,, but they SENSE things that we dont. Its hard to HIDE your feelings toward her.
BUt you NEED to.
How do you do it?
I practice a few techniques including dating several people at once(this works on ME,,,not her), keeping busy, etc.
But you may not have thought of REGULATING yourself in your time with her.
THis means that you not only dont call her EVERY day,,,but you vary WHEN you call. There is no pattern to it. Sometimes you dont call when youre SUPPOSED to. Youre generally unavailable.
TYpical week: You call her on tuesday night. Ten minute convo.
She calls you thursday wondering what youre up to.
You DONT call her. She calls YOU again saturday morning. Youre NOT available.
You call her sunday night. She wonders what you've been up to.
You let her know you've been tied with with many things.
Her interest level is growing.
Why?
First of all, she realizes that she's probably your TENTH priority. Women love this kind of challenge.
BUt dont TELL her this.
Just be a schizophrenically unpredictable and use time spacing which seems illogical.
See if it works for you.
BTW.......when you first meet a girl to ask out,,,try this time schedule:
Wait FOUR days before calling her. Ask her to coffee for a tuesday night.
After the date wait another FOUR days.