"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Scent of a Woman

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Your best time to pick up new women is within 24-48 hours after having sex with a woman who loves you.

I'm not sure how women know, but they always know. Has it been 6 months since you got laid? Women shy away. Did you just get laid this morning? Women are lined up.

In hopes to harness more of this power technique, I'm curious what your theory is on how exactly this phenomenon works.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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My thoughts are it's a logical fallacy confusing cause and effect so any theory to come from the discussion of the topic would inherently be flawed. Next.
 
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Its true. You are more attractive after having sex with someone into you vs being sexless. Its in your pheremones and your appearance. A sexually successful man is much more attractive than one who is not. I know on me sexless means im getting little to no attention, i get stressed easier.... Annoint me in puzzy and a whole lotta babes are double taking and im not even trying.

It was explained to me as pheremones. I also know your stance and swagger changes.

It would take sixty days sexless to see the difference.
 
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thelonewolflegend said:
scent of a jackass HOO HA HOO HA
That jack a$$ will be the guy who is going 60,90 days without real puzzy and jagging off. He will look like he gets no sex, they can smell it...

Women do not reward the starving or needy. It's not like they say, "oh I can see he's going thru a drought, that's probably a really handsome guy if we pad him up with puzzy." They don't do that.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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My theory:

Being sexually involved with a woman wakes up your sexual energy towards everyone. That's why when one woman is giving you good loving, you're more open to sexual energy in all other people. You're just more sexual when you're getting sexed.

Women see this and respond to the sexual energy, which is open and flowing; in the case of a long-time celibate guy, this energy would generally not be flowing.

But IMO you can't build long term relationships off of sexual energy so its kinda like legs without a torso and head. I mean, theoretically you can, but I'm more about the heart-connecting, than about collecting a bunch of stray sexual energy from all sorts of women whom one can't form a stable bond with. My 2cents.
 
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ucde said:
My theory:

Being sexually involved with a woman wakes up your sexual energy towards everyone. That's why when one woman is giving you good loving, you're more open to sexual energy in all other people. You're just more sexual when you're getting sexed.

Women see this and respond to the sexual energy, which is open and flowing; in the case of a long-time celibate guy, this energy would generally not be flowing.

But IMO you can't build long term relationships off of sexual energy so its kinda like legs without a torso and head. I mean, theoretically you can, but I'm more about the heart-connecting, than about collecting a bunch of stray sexual energy from all sorts of women whom one can't form a stable bond with. My 2cents.
Thank you... When a woman loves you right, you are more attractive to a wide range of women. And like he said, it's not the same as picking up bits and pieces from a bunch of women competitive with you, basically trying to score by bagging you. That's different.

Sexual energy is huge, and my man explained this is whats awakened when you have sex, and this is what is put to sleep when you go on long droughts. It affects your testosterone and confidence and stress levels too guy, so a sexless DJ should not be in any of our vocabulary.
 

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i dont want to belive this

but i have to admit im currently on the mother of all dry spells and it would seem like i cannot get laid for love nor money

getting attention no problem , pulling chicks no problem , getting numbers no problem

actually getting them into bed - big problem

granted i do have accomadation issues in my life atm which i know is the biggest issue

but il come back to this in a month or two when i have my own place again , if im still struggling then this could defentiley be a viable theory
 

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Bingo-Player said:
i dont want to belive this

but i have to admit im currently on the mother of all dry spells and it would seem like i cannot get laid for love nor money

getting attention no problem , pulling chicks no problem , getting numbers no problem

actually getting them into bed - big problem

granted i do have accomadation issues in my life atm which i know is the biggest issue

but il come back to this in a month or two when i have my own place again , if im still struggling then this could defentiley be a viable theory
I hear you...IF YOU ARE NOT CAREFUL, A DRY SPELL "CAN EAT AWAY AT YOU." The best analogy I can give you is in baseball, when a batter is "pressing." He 's in a slump, he tries too hard, the slump continues. He tries something different technique, no effect, THE SLUMP CONTINUES. He meditates, looks at the tape, does research, nothing....THE SLUMP CONTINUES. NOW IT'S EATING AT HIS CONFIDENCE, HE'S QUESTIONING HIMSELF... Hopefully you never get to this low.

Unless you come across a bad habit you need to be changed, you have to try to "stick to
your guns" and ride it out...
 

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ucde said:
My theory:

Being sexually involved with a woman wakes up your sexual energy towards everyone. That's why when one woman is giving you good loving, you're more open to sexual energy in all other people. You're just more sexual when you're getting sexed.

Women see this and respond to the sexual energy, which is open and flowing; in the case of a long-time celibate guy, this energy would generally not be flowing.

But IMO you can't build long term relationships off of sexual energy so its kinda like legs without a torso and head. I mean, theoretically you can, but I'm more about the heart-connecting, than about collecting a bunch of stray sexual energy from all sorts of women whom one can't form a stable bond with. My 2cents.
Interesting.

Do you think going prolonged periods, 2+ weeks, of no fap would mimic this effect? I remember I went about a month of no fap and I could literally feel my sexual energy overflowing out of me.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I can usually go 2-3 months no problem. Last year in May I bought my way out of a slump. It paid off big time:

May: Girl A
June: Girl B
July: Girl B
August: Girl C
September: Girl D
October: Girl C
November: Girl C
December: Girl E

At this point I moved to a new city and went back into a major slump. Winter is almost always a slump for me.

July: Girl C (you always come back to the basics)
July: Girl F (24 hours later)
 
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