Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Scenario: Girl doesn't answer her phone

bachelor

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You meet this really hot girl and she doesn't answer her phone... What would you do?

a. Leave voicemail (Explain Why)

b. Don't leave voicemail (Explain Why)
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Scought

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Leave a voicemail.

Many people, including myself, screen our calls. If you don't leave a voicemail and it shows up at some random number she is NOT going to call it back.

When you get the voicemail: Hey this is _______, we met at_______, call me at________ when you're free........

Not leaving a message, in my opinion, shows lack of confidence. Put yourself out there, leave the message, and then wait for the call back.

The waiting for the call back is the hardest part........

If she doesn't return it in a few days, make ONE more call, and delete the number. If she wants to talk to you she will......
 

Gangster Of Love

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Girls ALMOST NEVER answer the phone when they see a number that is calling for the first time, unless she knows who it is AND her interest level is already very high before giving out her number.

They always screen their calls, can you imagine them asnwering, calling back, having a boring conversation, etc., with every guy who wants to talk to them. This is true specially of hotties who give out their number to a lot of guys they meet. It is a lot easier to just screen a call, and not call back, than to reject the guy on the spot.

And the correct answer is...........................drum roll please!........................


a. Leave a voicemail.

No voice mail = almost always no call back, unless she doesn't get many calls and she legitimately missed it and she is curious to know who called.

Leave a funny message that will remind her who you are. She probably won't remember you, unless you really qualified this lead, and there was a high interest from her part.

If she just gave you the number and you didn't really connect with her when you got it, then still leave a message, and make sure you say something interesting, that way if she doesn't know who you are, you still come across as someone who is fun and interesting and she would like to get to know.
 
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