"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

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Scenario: Girl doesn't answer her phone

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You meet this really hot girl and she doesn't answer her phone... What would you do?

a. Leave voicemail (Explain Why)

b. Don't leave voicemail (Explain Why)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Leave a voicemail.

Many people, including myself, screen our calls. If you don't leave a voicemail and it shows up at some random number she is NOT going to call it back.

When you get the voicemail: Hey this is _______, we met at_______, call me at________ when you're free........

Not leaving a message, in my opinion, shows lack of confidence. Put yourself out there, leave the message, and then wait for the call back.

The waiting for the call back is the hardest part........

If she doesn't return it in a few days, make ONE more call, and delete the number. If she wants to talk to you she will......
 
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Girls ALMOST NEVER answer the phone when they see a number that is calling for the first time, unless she knows who it is AND her interest level is already very high before giving out her number.

They always screen their calls, can you imagine them asnwering, calling back, having a boring conversation, etc., with every guy who wants to talk to them. This is true specially of hotties who give out their number to a lot of guys they meet. It is a lot easier to just screen a call, and not call back, than to reject the guy on the spot.

And the correct answer is...........................drum roll please!........................


a. Leave a voicemail.

No voice mail = almost always no call back, unless she doesn't get many calls and she legitimately missed it and she is curious to know who called.

Leave a funny message that will remind her who you are. She probably won't remember you, unless you really qualified this lead, and there was a high interest from her part.

If she just gave you the number and you didn't really connect with her when you got it, then still leave a message, and make sure you say something interesting, that way if she doesn't know who you are, you still come across as someone who is fun and interesting and she would like to get to know.
 
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