scenario: 2 GUYS, 1 GIRL, both hitting on her @ the same time.

[j8snx1]

Okay, so picture that scene in any given location, and the 2 guys are with 1 girl. The guys are friends but they both want the girl, so how does one guy stand out over the other??

I thought about this scenario because I was reminiscing one day and I realized that there were so many events where I had some ****block enter our conversation and steal the show. During those situations, I began to hesitate since I didn't quite understand how to fight back and earn the girl's attention, but after about a year of coming to this site, I guess I realized that the DJ doesn't need the girl's attention, but the girl needs the DJ's attention, but the main question still bogs me down today:

In those given situations, what must a DJ do to have the girl get all over you and completely ignore the other guy?

In my search, I've found that:

a) You should be in the conversation as if the girl was not even there, or in other words, just keep talking to the guy, and neg hit the girl with some C&F a few times, but not shower the attention on her like the other guy.

b) Just have fun with the conversation; be relaxed and cool and just have fun talking, using some, if not all, of the steps in letter A.

c) Pull out more interesting stuff or if in a situation where the other guy is just talking about himself, you pull out some stuff that makes HER yap to YOU.

Just a few things I've come across:yes: but I wanted to hear your opinions on this, because I'm sure that many of you have come across this situation and all have better experience than I do when it comes to handling them well, DJ style!

What are great ways of doing option A without coming off like an ******* or a lesser being compared to guy #2?

I'd like to get some helpful feedback for this post before I head into college, because there will be a LOT of competition there, and Id like to be armed with DJ power before I walk in head high.

 

[MrCode]

Oh come on, you've never read about AMOGs?

Here is a thread you can start on:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=100459

Otherwise search for AMOG.

 

[j8snx1]

hmmm so in essence, the purpose of AMOG ing is to befriend AND shoo away the ****block, WHILE demonstrating ****y&funny with confidence and control hahaha!

what a mouthful

did i get that right or can someone correct me?

 

[tmpgstx]

You just have to remain unphased. If you're feeling you're losing out to him, don't sweat it, just stay kewl. If she finds you both attractive, she's going to want to more about you, so the less you reveal to her, the better. She'll be asking you questions about yourself. She won't be asking the other guy because he's already told her his whole life story.

 

[Chemistry]

Nothing wrong with a bit of friendly competition... if you're on the game more than the other guy then it's easy pickings... if you're not, then hey, you're time will come

 

[j8snx1]

responses to:

tmpgstx: ahaha yeah man, it's something I must tame, and thanks to that first post, the whole AMOG tactic opens up new ideas for when you're losing in the competition for attention. but one loophole i see in your advice is, is that it's just the scenario (which is likely to happen!) where the girl likes both guys, and the AMOG is being read like an open book where as the PUA/DJ is not AS predictable but maintaining his cool...which sounds fun to do actually.

Ashley Chuckles: yesss all is fair in love and war as they say, but then again you know, competition can be very annoying and waste of your time, but it's also a good chance to show the girl your awesome side of fighting for what you want, without the fighting! But there will be times in my, and plenty of others here, life where I will be blown out of the water by some ****block who just might have better game than i do...but that's exactly when the whole "make the alpha AMOG prove his worth to you" come in right?

Must study this AMOG thing more! tyhanks for the help guys

 

[MrCode]

Try to get a mindset that it is more important to get the skill, not the girl. That way if you do get blown out by another guy, you might actually learn something from him. AMOGing is a pretty advanced tactic and should probably only be tried when you are pretty sure your game is tight.

Either way, like anything in life, you will win some and you will lose some. Just try to have fun with it and you will probably get more wins.