"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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"Scarface" movie, and being a man in front of the ladies?

j8snx1

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Okay, so I was watching Scarface tonight and I noticed how Tony (Al Pacino) simply stood firm as a man and was honest about his opinions towards the hot white girl (Elvita I think?).

So Elvita(just gonna use that name) is a total b**** to Pacino. She behaves in a cold hearted manner, she tries to degrade and abase Pacino's confidence, character, and completely rejects Pacino for who he is. She gives one of the worst sh*t test that really shows what kind of an @$$hole she really is.

But, Pacino stands firm on his beliefs, acts very straight-forward, and doesn't put up with Elvita's garbage. He expresses his affection for her, whether she likes it or not. But in the end, he manages to score with his persistence and marries Elvita.

So DJ's...does persistence pay off in the long run?

OR

Is it better to next the girl that shows no interest in the beginning, whether it's a sh*t test or not?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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There's a post in the bible about confident persistance. It's good stuff on that exact subject.
 
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