"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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"Scarface" movie, and being a man in front of the ladies?

j8snx1

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Okay, so I was watching Scarface tonight and I noticed how Tony (Al Pacino) simply stood firm as a man and was honest about his opinions towards the hot white girl (Elvita I think?).

So Elvita(just gonna use that name) is a total b**** to Pacino. She behaves in a cold hearted manner, she tries to degrade and abase Pacino's confidence, character, and completely rejects Pacino for who he is. She gives one of the worst sh*t test that really shows what kind of an @$$hole she really is.

But, Pacino stands firm on his beliefs, acts very straight-forward, and doesn't put up with Elvita's garbage. He expresses his affection for her, whether she likes it or not. But in the end, he manages to score with his persistence and marries Elvita.

So DJ's...does persistence pay off in the long run?

OR

Is it better to next the girl that shows no interest in the beginning, whether it's a sh*t test or not?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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There's a post in the bible about confident persistance. It's good stuff on that exact subject.
 
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