Scared to approach white girls?

[Tha Realnezz]

What is it with you asian Dj's and your submissiveness to white people?

Do you guys wanna be white or something?Every thread you gius complain about white people not liking you.

Newsflash:America=Racism.

Stick to asian girls if other races don't want you.Don't coon it up just cuz you got jungle forever.

 

[Ladiesssman]

Hey,
I love white girls. But I get intimidated by them as well.

 

[backbreaker]

I am black, my girlfriend right now is black, but I usually end up dating white women, sometimes hispanic. I don't have much of a problem approcaching anyone.

Somet hing I l earned is, it's only really a problem if you make it a problem. Be yourself. If they have a problem with you, whoose fault is that? A snob is a snob, no matter what color they are. When I go out to clubs and bars, I get hit on by white women all the time, alot more so than black women.

 

[diplomatic_lie]

Originally posted by Tha Realnezz
What is it with you asian Dj's and your submissiveness to white people?

He's not Asian. He's white.

 

[So Many Ways]

To the OP:

You have a limiting belief that is holding you back from approaching them. I've had a similar problem in the past with approaching black women. You're going to have to reframe that limiting belief in your head before you can move forward. Your issue is an inner game problem.

 

[Luveno]

You're being a moron. White women are just black women who have white skin and facial features. Get it? Asian women are just hispanic women that have asian complexion with asian features.

The point being that YOU SHOULD NOT CONCERN YOURSELF WITH THE RACE OF THE GIRL. One race is not above another.

However, this is an intrinsic fear that you have of white women. I believe that it is stemmed from the mass media and TV: The white paris hiltons and lindsay lohans are made out to be the untouchable prize that men have to wait on hand and foot lest they rain down on you with irreputable rage and scorn. So, stop watching TV and start doing something productive like learning how to play Bass guitar, or even better, take vocal lessons.

Stop paying attention to the media.

 

[jakethasnake]

Originally posted by Luveno
You're being a moron. White women are just black women who have white skin and facial features. Get it? Asian women are just hispanic women that have asian complexion with asian features.

This is a good way of looking at it and is the practical solution to what you describe below:

Originally posted by Luveno

The point being that YOU SHOULD NOT CONCERN YOURSELF WITH THE RACE OF THE GIRL. One race is not above another.

However, this is an intrinsic fear that you have of white women. I believe that it is stemmed from the mass media and TV: The white paris hiltons and lindsay lohans are made out to be the untouchable prize that men have to wait on hand and foot lest they rain down on you with irreputable rage and scorn. So, stop watching TV and start doing something productive like learning how to play Bass guitar, or even better, take vocal lessons.

Stop paying attention to the media.

The power dynamics of this country are skewed so that whites hold the most, and are thus able to sculpt media trends and images to their whim. So naturally, all those white male media executives, script writers, producers, and directors are going to glorify themselves. That seems to be an innate trait in all men.


This, coupled with the actual real life economic and social disparities you observe in real life - make you think that white people are actually above you.


Funny how your mind plays tricks on you, isn't it?

 

[englishman]

Originally posted by jakethasnake
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The power dynamics of this country are skewed so that whites hold the most, and are thus able to sculpt media trends and images to their whim. So naturally, all those white male media executives, script writers, producers, and directors are going to glorify themselves. That seems to be an innate trait in all men.

I would have agreed with you at one time, but on closer examination its obvious that some races are better than other races at particular things....maybe there are certain things about being white that are simply better? Its not white peoples fault...or any other peoples fault for that matter.....just how it is...same goes for any other race.......its not like theres a black conspirecy to fill all basket ball courts with blacks....there just better at it, thats how it is.....

 

[jakethasnake]

Originally posted by englishman
I would have agreed with you at one time, but on closer examination its obvious that some races are better than other races at particular things....maybe there are certain things about being white that are simply better? Its not white peoples fault...or any other peoples fault for that matter.....just how it is...same goes for any other race.......its not like theres a black conspirecy to fill all basket ball courts with blacks....there just better at it, thats how it is.....

Okay, let me try to reason with you here. Many black males see the academic and financial/business world as a racist place that's hostile to them and wants to see them fail. Maybe. So they place a heavy emphasis on succeeding on the sports field. A lot of these guys (scholar-athletes in general, too) get into famous school because the coach fudges their grades, or just puts in a few good words with the administration. And throughout their career they don't do much work and just get by, sometimes with help from teachers/coaches (a breach of the academic code of integrity in most higher learning institutions). I lived in the same suite with two varsity basketball players in college, so I know what's up.


Anyway, there are shytloads of blacks in the NBA because it's in their culture. Sure there are many black individuals with good genetics for basketball, but by law of averages there should be just as many Asians and Chinese who are as good, and probably even better than most blacks at dunking the ball, or throwing the ball through the hoop. I'm not saying that 'nature' plays no part in this, but 'nurture is a very significant part of it.



This works on the same principle as Asians (East Indians, Orientals) being the most dominating minority in technical, medical, and professional circle. We don't emphasize sports - we emphasize education. Part of it is traditional cultural snobbery where any occupation that required physical toil was seen as low class occupations that were fit for serfs/slaves.

 

[FreeStyleZ]

As a white guy, I feel I can honestly say to you that white women can be (and are usually) the biggest b*tches you will ever meet.

You never tried talkin to a sista have you?

Look at a list of the most beautiful women and it's almost always dominated by white women

In whose opinion? My list of the finest women .. the FIRST thing popping into my head are women like Gabrielle Union, Beyonce, and Vida Guerra. None of those women are white.

 

[TheInfamousCBear]

How can someone be shook of white girls? They are the easiest on the planet...

 

[Tyrone Biggums]

Originally posted by englishman
I would have agreed with you at one time, but on closer examination its obvious that some races are better than other races at particular things....maybe there are certain things about being white that are simply better? Its not white peoples fault...or any other peoples fault for that matter.....just how it is...same goes for any other race.......its not like theres a black conspirecy to fill all basket ball courts with blacks....there just better at it, thats how it is.....

Some more racist bulls**t.

 

[AverageFC]

Do you guys wanna be white or something?

I thought everybody wanted to be white

 

[WomansDream]

Feminists are typically white, so while the original poster could be correct, it's more likely he just takes advantage of girls from 3rd world countries, beating them and overpowering them into various sexual acts.

Yet another example of a male who just doesn't get how to get women.

 

[blue17]

Originally posted by WomansDream
Feminists are typically white, so while the original poster could be correct, it's more likely he just takes advantage of girls from 3rd world countries, beating them and overpowering them into various sexual acts.

Yet another example of a male who just doesn't get how to get women.

troll much?

 

[Tha Realnezz]

I'm not making a racist remark about Asians.

I'm saying that most Asian DJ's on this site whine about white people not liking them.If someone doesn't like you why would you sit there and try to anlyze WHY they don't like you.

You say "well **** 'em I have my own people" You don't force yourself into that society.

**** that...for real.

 

[jakethasnake]

Originally posted by Tha Realnezz
I'm not making a racist remark about Asians.

I'm saying that most Asian DJ's on this site whine about white people not liking them.If someone doesn't like you why would you sit there and try to anlyze WHY they don't like you.

You say "well **** 'em I have my own people" You don't force yourself into that society.

**** that...for real.

Tha Realnezz has a point. It's better to do your own thing than sell your soul for acceptance from white people. It's the same thing as supplicating to get into a girl's pants - you grovel and whine for attention.


If white people won't give you respect off the bat, just accept it for what it is. Many have ingrained ideas about Asians, espcially Asian men. In the meantime, those hypocrites whack their little pink weiners to Asian porn behind their white wives/girlfriends' backs.



People like that do not deserve your respect. Work hard, make something of yourself. Become a respected businessman. Sign up for the police academy. Become a fireman. Become a professional musician, or a teacher/college professor. All people respect men these positions, regardless off race. I even saw a Chinese-American firefighter in Upstate New York, and a lot of white women were glancing at him with curiosity and perhaps even sexual interest. All that comes with respect - you set an example to white people, and those that aren't obvious bigots will warm upto you. And when you get that kind of respect, it ultimately becomes social proof for white women.


Either that, or you stay isolated from the mainstream white society and just do your thing with your Asian family, your Asian community. And then stay on the lookout for white women with Asian fetishes (they exist, for sure - I've met several), or the adventurous types that are experimenting with interracial dating with Asian men (these types are typically college-age, or have a history with an Asian man from the past). You could work this alternate path, if you wish.


But the biggest thing is to gain respect by EXAMPLE. Be something they look up to.

 

[Don Juanabbe]

Originally posted by FreeStyleZ
You never tried talkin to a sista have you?


In whose opinion? My list of the finest women .. the FIRST thing popping into my head are women like Gabrielle Union, Beyonce, and Vida Guerra. None of those women are white.

Well, no, I haven't often spoken with too many black women, no, I don't know any really. They just seem unapproachable.

as for these lists, I'm not arguing with you, it's just my observation that magazines tend to place a heavy amount of white women on their hot lists.....I'm not saying I agree with it, just pointing out a fact.