scandalous chick?

[seattledon]

This girl is hot and i want to date her and we've been hanging out lately. We messed around a little bit the first night, but haven't messed around much since. I really think she likes me but she shows absolutely NO signs. She stays the night in my bed but doesn't initiate anything. Plus, she told me numerous stories about her a certain guy got "too close" or "got feelings" or "got all girly" and how she stopped talking to them. She is a 10 and I want to hook up with her. Do I play hard to get and pretend like i don't care about her and make her want me, or, do i pretend like i'm her puppy dog and make her feel like she's the best thing in the world to get her?? she might be scandalous, but also, she's kinda self conscious. how can i tell what to do?

 

[georgie24]

if she's a female DJ then let her walk all over you and make you her pet b!tch, make sure you keep her away from other men that will only fill her ego..you must lose yourself in her in order to score


good luck!!

 

[seattledon]

what if she's not a female dj and is self concious and shy but also, knows that every guy wants her, she doesn't have a lot of game but shes super hot.

 

[Blue Phoenix]

Why is she scandalous?

 

[seattledon]

because when guys start showing feeling for her, she jets out. even if she shows an attraction to the guys at first.

 

[Blue Phoenix]

This is not scandalous behavior!!!

She seems to be Miss elusive.

Do a research for that.

 

[Qmanchoo]

"She stays the night in my bed but doesn't initiate anything."

*slaps head*

That's the NON feeling, non clingy, non girly mans job. btw, how can you tell someone exactly what to do when each case is so different with very few details you can actually accuralty interpret on a web forum?

Anyway, test the waters and keep pushing, but slowly in small steps...if you made out before, try making out and some suggestive touching, if you have done that push a step further, but not in a "too agressive" way. If she resists don't go further and don't take it personally, just let it roll off your back and continute later...keep _progressing!_ to gauge her true interest level in sex, because it sounds like this is your difficulty.

She's probably saying "I want to **** your brains out but if i do I don't want you turning into a touchy feely girly man like the other dude I dumped, and I'm not going to initiate sex because I want to see that you're the one with the nuts to do it"

Ever read the DYD material? Keep turning up the sexual volume knob...ever so slowly.

You'll never be able to tell unless you TRY and if you don't ever try you'll be pissed when she eventually moves on. and btw, when a woman is complaining about the girly men she's stopped talking to it's a good idea not to turn into a "puppy dog that makes her feel special" and get added to that list.