Snake-eyes
Don Juan
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Have anyone here been in Ashley Madison, the whole thing looks like a scam....
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Scam or what
- Thread starter Snake-eyes
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Beware that they've had security breaches before so you don't want to be on there unless you don't mind being outed. However there is some action to be had depending on where you live. Outside of the larger cities it can be a waste of time.
Then if you know where I live then it's a HUGE waste of time.
I'm not famous so I could care less if they got my name.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
touma.akagi
Senior Don Juan
App reviews say that a ton of basic operations within the app charge, so I didn't bother with it. If an app is milking you with paywalls every 5 minutes, you shouldn't be spending money (and by extension time) on it.
If you've got more money than you know what to do with, then by all means, go ahead and click away if you're willing to take the risk. But even then, your funds are just plain better spent/saved elsewhere.
If you've got more money than you know what to do with, then by all means, go ahead and click away if you're willing to take the risk. But even then, your funds are just plain better spent/saved elsewhere.