I've noticed that I say "No" to my wife every time she has a request or wants to do something. In the beginning, I was more open to her ideas & everything but now I'm extremely resistance & just want to be by myself on the computer. I think my behavoir is getting in the way of us having a great relationship. I'm thinking of using Doc Love's technique saying "No" once a month but I'll say Yes to everything else just so I can have some structure because I'm no good at this marriage stuff. Almost, like I have a "No" card & I can only use it once a month. I remember writing to Doc Love awhile back & he told me that when you get married, you lose half of your freedom...What are your guy's thoughts on all this?
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Saying "No" to a woman
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