I've noticed that I say "No" to my wife every time she has a request or wants to do something. In the beginning, I was more open to her ideas & everything but now I'm extremely resistance & just want to be by myself on the computer. I think my behavoir is getting in the way of us having a great relationship. I'm thinking of using Doc Love's technique saying "No" once a month but I'll say Yes to everything else just so I can have some structure because I'm no good at this marriage stuff. Almost, like I have a "No" card & I can only use it once a month. I remember writing to Doc Love awhile back & he told me that when you get married, you lose half of your freedom...What are your guy's thoughts on all this?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Saying "No" to a woman
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