Gambit2318
Don Juan
I was just wondering how long did you guys have to wait till you said to your girlfriend that you love her? I have been going out with my current gf for like a month and a half is that to early?
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Saying I love you
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Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Ok my last reply wasn't too useful. Don't be so keen to rush in. After a month and a half, you do not love her, you hardly know her.
She should be the first one to say it, not you. And even then, you don't have to say it back. In fact, it's better if you don't. There's about a million posts on this already.
She should be the first one to say it, not you. And even then, you don't have to say it back. In fact, it's better if you don't. There's about a million posts on this already.
What bp1974 said.
If she loves you already (as far as she's concerned) it won't matter (she'll think you're a mindreader and just the sweetest person).
Since she probably doesn't after only 6 weeks (42 days), at best she'll assume she has you wrapped around her finger (and she won't like you anymore).
At worst, she'll run for the hills.
If she loves you already (as far as she's concerned) it won't matter (she'll think you're a mindreader and just the sweetest person).
Since she probably doesn't after only 6 weeks (42 days), at best she'll assume she has you wrapped around her finger (and she won't like you anymore).
At worst, she'll run for the hills.
Ok, first of all... YOU DON'T LOVE HER!! And YES it's too early... You haven't had the chance to see the flaws yet! Believe me, you will...Originally posted by Gambit2318
I was just wondering how long did you guys have to wait till you said to your girlfriend that you love her? I have been going out with my current gf for like a month and a half is that to early?
You have to wait a few months man.... you just HAVE to. If you want it to last.
I hope this Helps.
Zephyrus
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
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Master Don Juan
I think this is sort of like when you are looking to get into a relationship, you wait for them to bring it up, cuz when they are ready they will - same thing goes for saying i love you. If you say it first, she has the upper hand, and you want to be wearin the man pants, so let her drop it first.