Gambit2318
Don Juan
I was just wondering how long did you guys have to wait till you said to your girlfriend that you love her? I have been going out with my current gf for like a month and a half is that to early?
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Saying I love you
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Ok my last reply wasn't too useful. Don't be so keen to rush in. After a month and a half, you do not love her, you hardly know her.
She should be the first one to say it, not you. And even then, you don't have to say it back. In fact, it's better if you don't. There's about a million posts on this already.
She should be the first one to say it, not you. And even then, you don't have to say it back. In fact, it's better if you don't. There's about a million posts on this already.
What bp1974 said.
If she loves you already (as far as she's concerned) it won't matter (she'll think you're a mindreader and just the sweetest person).
Since she probably doesn't after only 6 weeks (42 days), at best she'll assume she has you wrapped around her finger (and she won't like you anymore).
At worst, she'll run for the hills.
If she loves you already (as far as she's concerned) it won't matter (she'll think you're a mindreader and just the sweetest person).
Since she probably doesn't after only 6 weeks (42 days), at best she'll assume she has you wrapped around her finger (and she won't like you anymore).
At worst, she'll run for the hills.
Ok, first of all... YOU DON'T LOVE HER!! And YES it's too early... You haven't had the chance to see the flaws yet! Believe me, you will...Originally posted by Gambit2318
I was just wondering how long did you guys have to wait till you said to your girlfriend that you love her? I have been going out with my current gf for like a month and a half is that to early?
You have to wait a few months man.... you just HAVE to. If you want it to last.
I hope this Helps.
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I think this is sort of like when you are looking to get into a relationship, you wait for them to bring it up, cuz when they are ready they will - same thing goes for saying i love you. If you say it first, she has the upper hand, and you want to be wearin the man pants, so let her drop it first.