Saying "I love you"

[stoner1129]

So the end of the conversation comes, and right after you say bye you're supposed to say "I love you", now are you supposed to have the girl say it first? Are you supposed to say it first? Or are you supposed to stay away from saying it? And if you're supposed to say how should you say it, very meaningful or like a little bit of a joke or something else?

 

[Supremo]

There're a bunch of threads already posted on this.

Generally, in a relationship, you're supposed to have the girl say "I love you" first.

After she's the one who breaks that barrier, you can say it first after you're done talking or not at all.

"I love you" isn't just a meaningless string of 3 words; it's validating that you DO love this girl and you should mean it every time. Don't overuse it or else it'll just become routine. Everytime you say it, she should know you are being sincere.

 

[SinJester]

It barely means anything these days. I sign on MSN messenger and I see so many comments with

Love you Emma!
I LOVE BOB 4EVA!!!
<3Laura<3

Then theres 'love you babe' at the end of every text message ever.

Eletronically its probably different but just don't take it so seriously.

 

[Brians_600rr]

It barely means anything these days. I sign on MSN messenger and I see so many comments with

Love you Emma!
I LOVE BOB 4EVA!!!
<3Laura<3

Then theres 'love you babe' at the end of every text message ever.

Eletronically its probably different but just don't take it so seriously.

very true bro! Electronically IT IS totally different and not taken as seriously as it would be if it was expressed in person.

I also agree with another dude on here that said to not over use it!!! and wait till she says it first.. u dont wanna scare the poor girl off by springing an 'i love u' comment too soon. make sure she feels the same way.

good luck bro

 

[trojanman88]

never say that ****