"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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saying i love you

the_azn_fu

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i want to reduce the amount of times i say "i love you" to preserve its value. however, how do i suddenly stop after doing so every night?


her: i love you
him: okay, bye
her: you don't love me?


then what? how would you explain yourself?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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chronic99uk

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the_azn_fu said:
i want to reduce the amount of times i say "i love you" to preserve its value. however, how do i suddenly stop after doing so every night?


her: i love you
him: okay, bye
her: you don't love me?


then what? how would you explain yourself?

How about.

You. Babe words cant express how i feel about you, but the 1 that comes close is i love you. I want to make sure its special so infuture i dont want to over use it.
Her. (either she will vomit) or ahhh your so sweet.

Summary : If you've told her you love her, then surely you can tell her this rather than asking our advice, its called communication, the basis of all relationships :D
 

banGbro

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how about turning everything around.

you: I love you
her: okay, bye
you: you dont love me?
her: I love you swetie
you: I love me too
her: I love you too
you: I know, because Im hot and handsome, bye now
 
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